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33 Saint Paul, MN Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 11
5′ 5″ (1.66m)
Body type
Not at all
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Japanese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, I have one cat, a fast car, and many anime and Monty Python DVDs. When I'm not playing with the cats or watching anime, I can often be found reading, playing video games, playing board games, or laughing with friends and family. In other news, I enjoy my job, and am thankful for my good fortune.

I'm bubbly and outgoing among friends, and don't mind taking charge of a situation or letting someone else lead. I love laughter, and try to find the humor in life. I'm loud, too: you'll always be able to hear me before you see me!

I realize I lose a lot of interest being overweight. So, if that's a deal breaker, feel free to move on, and good luck!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I tend to rotate my relaxation activities between reading, video games, anime, and movies. I'll read intensely for a few days to a few weeks, then switch to anime and watch entire seasons in a few days. I guess my enjoyment of hobbies can be intense!

Lately I've been doing a ton of reading (you can't read book 5 in a series without refreshing books 1-4).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Diffusing situations with humor. Finding something to be happy about. Enjoying myself. Acting younger than I really am.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They notice how nervous I am around new people. After that, either my desire to laugh, or my lack of an indoor voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This often devolves into name dropping - what good is that? I'm pretty eclectic in my music tastes, but I love hearing new music from others - it's how I built a large portion of my collection. So whatever music you like, I at least want to hear it before I make a judgment.

I read books: fiction, scientific, essay, etc. I tend to shy away from biographies and historical pieces, so there is that piece of information for you! I also actively avoid books with a sad ending; there's enough of that on the news.

For movies, I like action, scary or scifi. I enjoy stand up comedy a lot - I'll watch anyone once! Eddie Izzard is the one name I will drop in this section - I saw him live, and it was a life affirming event!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Diet Soda
Cats (specifically, my cat)
Air conditioning / heating
Family / Friends
Exclamation points!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lolcats. Books I'm reading. Candy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1 line messages don't get a response. Why? Because you haven't given me anything to respond to - ask me a question or tell a funny anecdote! Write an engaging first message and you will get something back. Please?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are easy going, like cats, or enjoy humor. Or maybe you're awesome, that's a good reason, too!