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28 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 25
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, French

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My self-summary
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I travel a lot for work lately, mostly in Washington. If you live in Western Washington and you want to hang out and/or hook up... hit me up.

I'm a perpetual motion machine! I love learning and experiencing new things. Change upsets me unless I've engineered it. I spent 4 years in New York and overseas, but I had to come home to Oregon because I missed the trees. I love the outdoors and hoppy beer and fancy coffee. I'm enjoying Portland, but someday I'd like to own enough land for a donkey or two. I'm quiet but not shy. I'm comfortable with myself, but always trying to improve. I'm queer and pansexual. I'm trying to learn how to communicate my needs and desires without fear or hesitation. I'm not interested in monogamy (no, not even if we're perfect for each other and madly in love). I'm currently dating a sweet and sexy queer guy. My perfect relationship would look something like a small community or large family of lovers and friends. And trees and goats and all of the cats and maybe dogs and kids and a donkey and a couple alpacas... yeah, I'm going to need a lot of room.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working as a land survey field tech. After a ten hour day swinging a machete and hauling tripods through the woods, I head to a tango class or milonga, beers with friends or mack on my boy, or home to watch a show and knit, or if I'm really lucky, I might have enough energy to read a few pages of Finnegan's Wake. Going to bed earlier than your grandma does on weeknights. On weekends, I drive away, rock climb, cook giant breakfasts and roasts, work in my garden, and drink hoppy microbrews, or stay in my bathrobe till 5pm. Yep, that's about it. I'm diggin it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading. I've read all of Proust. Enough said.
Making people feel at ease, laughing, debating.
Making friends with your cat.
Learning things.
Figuring out how to make or fix stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, apparently. Seriously, dude? You haven't ever before had a chance to ask how dreadlocks are born? Sheesh, it's Portland.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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One Hundred Years of Solitude, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas (the book and the movie), Sex at Dawn, Mason and Dixon (and other books by Pynchon), Ulysses (Joyce), The Master and Margarita, The Brothers Karamazov, Labyrinths (Borges), Jesus' Son, and so so so many others.

Prescilla Queen of the Desert, Pulp Fiction, Harold and Maude, Cabaret, The Royal Tenenbaums, and others.

The Wire, Dr. Who, Archer, The Venture Bros, Downton Abbey, My Little Pony Friendship Is Magic.

The Velevet Underground, Bob Dylan, Wild Beasts, Stevedores, Modest Mouse, Pink Floyd, The Doors, Beulah, and much much more.

Humane meats! Fried chicken, roast chicken, salmon, peaches, salads, pad thai, pot roast, anything with bacon, nothing spicy. I mostly just love food! and cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nature/outdoor time
good food
actually, I could do without most things, but I'd rather not.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being thankful. How much time I have to do all the things that need to be done that day. Sex. Wondering how to start a conversation with any of the million beautiful and aloof Portland queer ladies. The projects I'm working on or wish I had time for. What I would do with 35 acres.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recovering from a 50-hour work week with a gluten-free IPA and my grill.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I pray. Pagan.
You should message me if
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You want to talk about books or ideas or beers or crafts or the outdoors. You dance argentine tango or you've always wanted to learn. You'll let me ride your horse/donkey/llama. You want to stitch and bitch. You'll teach me how to spin wool. You're a queer or androgynous hottie who thinks I'm cute. You want to invite me to an orgy. You want to be my unicorn or you're interested in dating a couple. You've seen me scammin' on your profile. I'm crazy busy so I might not reply, but I'd love to hear your story.

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