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54 • Buffalo, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 39–54
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 14
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Catholicism, but not too serious about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Sales / Marketing
- Has a kid
- Likes dogs and dislikes cats
- English (Okay)
I'm not a workaholic but do take my career seriously. It's all about balance. Have been told I'm multi-talented and yet I'm a little uncomfortable sharing that. (Here's where I need to add a self-deprecating line...). Other clues to the mystery of me... I'm a self-starter, ambitious, and creative. Add in protective, chivalrous, romantic, serious and realistic.
Seeking a genuine, spirited woman to chase the dream, enjoy the magic of a great connection, and mount an assault on life with all its up and downs. Bonus points for independent (ENTP, INTP) with forward leaning intellectual curiosity.
A few towns I've lived in and wouldn't mind returning to... Seattle, San Jose, Sacramento, Fort Lauderdale, Honolulu, Pensacola, and Annapolis.
Oh, and I like lifting weights, ballroom dancing, yoga (just learning), Formula 1 racing (I'm a frustrated driver...), cooking (experimenting), walking (hey it burns fat...and it works for people who each rich foods like the French,,, they do it when they're not surrendering), horseshoes (not wearing them...), ping pong (DO NOT feed the backhand...you'll get CRUSHED), tennis (I once 'put away' a ball on Tracy Austin (I think she let me...), patriotic pursuits (not sure what this means but I'm a huge patriot), and military airshows. I'm a news 'junkie'...can't get enough. And in a few small ways, helped my country win the Cold War (so let me tell you what I did in the war son...).
And...I'm proud of my 25 year old son. Valedictorian. Smart. Driven. Has a good head on his shoulders. Perhaps most importantly, grounded and comfortable in his own skin.
I'm down-to-earth and approachable.
Movies: Any movie with Russell Crowe OR DENZEL (dah man).
Food: Sushi, steak, Mahi, Opakapaka
Favorite Restaurant(s): Del Mar Pacifica, Banderra (Corona del Mar), Roys of Honolulu, Ruths Chris anywhere, Hy's Steakhouse Honolulu
Music: All music - here's a few... Whitney Houston (RIP), smooth jazz (Dave Koz, Brian Culbertson), Davol (Lucky Day, Stay) - Van Halen, Motley Crue, and live performances of Ted Nugent, ZZ Top, and other 80's bands.
I am not on the OKC A-list, so I won't see if you "like" me.. you'll need to message me if you want to connect.
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