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54 Buffalo, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39-54
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:20pm
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Catholicism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hmmmm, let's see..what to say...I'm a fit, healthy guy. I'm considered very handsome by female friends volunteering their two cents. That's why they're my friends right...

I'm not a workaholic but do take my career seriously. It's all about balance. Have been told I'm multi-talented and yet I'm a little uncomfortable sharing that. (Here's where I need to add a self-deprecating line...). Other clues to the mystery of me... I'm a self-starter, ambitious, and creative. Add in protective, chivalrous, romantic, serious and realistic.

Seeking a genuine, spirited woman to chase the dream, enjoy the magic of a great connection, and mount an assault on life with all its up and downs. Bonus points for independent (ENTP, INTP) with forward leaning intellectual curiosity.

A few towns I've lived in and wouldn't mind returning to... Seattle, San Jose, Sacramento, Fort Lauderdale, Honolulu, Pensacola, and Annapolis.

Oh, and I like lifting weights, ballroom dancing, yoga (just learning), Formula 1 racing (I'm a frustrated driver...), cooking (experimenting), walking (hey it burns fat...and it works for people who each rich foods like the French,,, they do it when they're not surrendering), horseshoes (not wearing them...), ping pong (DO NOT feed the'll get CRUSHED), tennis (I once 'put away' a ball on Tracy Austin (I think she let me...), patriotic pursuits (not sure what this means but I'm a huge patriot), and military airshows. I'm a news 'junkie'...can't get enough. And in a few small ways, helped my country win the Cold War (so let me tell you what I did in the war son...).

And...I'm proud of my 25 year old son. Valedictorian. Smart. Driven. Has a good head on his shoulders. Perhaps most importantly, grounded and comfortable in his own skin.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring out how to outdo what I've already done! And continuing in my pursuit to find a creative woman, artist type, with some quirky, unpredictable, eccentricity to add to the mix. Gotta find someone who is fun, open-minded, doesn't sweat the small stuff, and knows what's important, starting with (us).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying what I'm doing wherever and whenever and making sure everyone around me is.. too. Used to be decent tennis player and would like to pick it back up.
The first things people usually notice about me
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They feel like they've known me their whole life.
I'm down-to-earth and approachable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read everything I can get my hands on

Movies: Any movie with Russell Crowe OR DENZEL (dah man).

Food: Sushi, steak, Mahi, Opakapaka

Favorite Restaurant(s): Del Mar Pacifica, Banderra (Corona del Mar), Roys of Honolulu, Ruths Chris anywhere, Hy's Steakhouse Honolulu

Music: All music - here's a few... Whitney Houston (RIP), smooth jazz (Dave Koz, Brian Culbertson), Davol (Lucky Day, Stay) - Van Halen, Motley Crue, and live performances of Ted Nugent, ZZ Top, and other 80's bands.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends
Red Wine
The Senses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How fascinating it would be to learn all about my partner, her life experiences and what made her who she is today.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying the company of friends, making new friends, enjoying some wine AND you (hopefully),...oh...and song.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm looking for a connection and chemistry on both a personal and physical level. I also exchange cat recipes with other dog lovers.
You should message me if
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You believe in true love and you're open minded.

I am not on the OKC A-list, so I won't see if you "like" me.. you'll need to message me if you want to connect.