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30 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Dec 28, 2012
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a theatre technician, former U.S. Marine, mathematician, musician, Canadian, workaholic. That's the thumbnail sketch. I'm also in an open relationship with kkmcwhat.

I'm outgoing. Everyone says they're outgoing. I spell well, use five-dollar words, know how a lot of things work (and am working on the rest). I really, really need coffee to function.

I often wear t-shirts with sarcastic sayings on them. Every single one of my jeans has the right knee ripped out, from working. I go through work boots way too quickly.

I play bluesy piano, a few chords on guitar, a decidedly mediocre electric bass, and a mean game of scrabble. I volunteer, work for peanuts for a cause or art I support, and somehow make my rent anyway.
What I’m doing with my life
Working. All the time. I'm a freelance theatre technician, doing lights, set, sound, video, and carpentry for theatres all over Portland. I don't know if that qualifies as a career (not much chance for advancement) but it's a chance to learn a lot and make art, which is plenty for me in my 20s.
I’m really good at
Carpentry, math, sound design, spontaneous adventures, baking cookies, learning new skills, taking care of friends in need.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look like a young Dr. House (I'm told) and I'm probably carrying something heavy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
To read: Snow Crash, The Ethical Slut, Godel Escher Bach, feminist blogs.

To watch: The Fall, Requiem for a Dream, Fight Club, The Machinist, House M.D.

To listen to: (in order): blues rock, industrial electronica, disposable mass-marketed pop (I'm awful), alt-rock, punk, classical (more Romantic than Baroque), hip-hop that I find clever, country, everything else.

Or, to really bare my soul, my top-played (according to iTunes, unedited): Soul Coughing, Radiohead, Honeycut, Nine Inch Nails, The Coasters, Big Sugar, Lily Allen, Beck, Jamie Lidell, Justin Timberlake, OK Go.

To eat: I like cooking more than I ever thought I would. DIY Food Preparation. It's all the rage.
The six things I could never do without
1. Kailyn.
2. A challenge.
3. Music.
4. Love.
5. Art.
6. Coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Feminism, the geometry of the hyperbolic plane, Kailyn, whatever project is closest to a deadline, the vast unknowable cosmos, politics, love, and the Oxford serial comma.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working! Theatre eats weekend nights - I'm always up for late-night adventures, and free odd hours (Mondays are usually open!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm deeply and unshakingly petrified by ants.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–70
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex