Simply put a man and a man only. I'm no athlete, entertainer, dope boy or nothing that would cause you to think your working days are over. I'm trying to build my life from the roof up. I didn't say from the ground up because I have been there, God allowed me to rise from it and I stand alone. No pat on the back needed because that is just one basic attribute that a man should naturally walk in. I have become optimistic about meeting a person and I try not to dictate the when, where, how, and who. My eyes are open but I'm not looking. I'm just experiencing the journey the best way I know how.

Work is a big space in my life so I like most people live for the weekends. I spend time with family and friends as often as I can. Music is something that I am very passionate about both listening and creating songs of my own. Music is a dream of mine but it has to assume the role of hobby because of what my reality is. I used to be a gym rat years ago, I enjoy working out but its off and on now, I do however try and keep myself in shape.

I don't think I've mastered any one thing in life but when I take a liking to some thing I can usually do pretty well at it. If I had to name something I'm good at it would be music. Its the one thing I'm the most passionate about.

The first thing would be how much of a clown I am. I have a silly side to me. I don't walk around smiling from ear to ear all day but if I can get a good laugh in then I will chuckle it up. Laughter is like medicine to the soul.

A couple of my favorite books are the Final Quest by Rick Joyner and ofcourse the Bible. Movies would be 80's I love to revisit those days. I'm a R&B man but older R&B like Anita Baker, Stephanie Mills, Luther Vandross to name a few. Also rap but mostly 90's and 80's rap when you had to have talent. Seafood is my favorite, I love trying different cultures as far as cooking styles but we all pretty much make seafood the same.

In no order Bible, iPod, cell phone, my Andis hair clippers, crock pot, and love.

Tomorrow and how to make it better than today. I am thankful for what my life is now with myself and my two children having our basic human needs met, you know food, clothe, and shelter but I spend a lot of time plotting and planning how to improve. Also Ms. Right and who ever she may be runs across my mind from time to time aswell.

At work and it sucks. I work an evening shift so I don't have a Friday night but Saturday is my day to let my hair down. I'm not a frequent club person but I do love to go out every now and then have a drink or two and crash the dance floor. I'm no Chris Brown but I can cut the rug a bit.

I would have to say I am not who I thought I would be by now. Some people seem to act as if they have it all together or that they have things under control. I'm learning to be content until my day comes but truly I'm not satisfied right now.

If you are honest with not just what you say but life in general. If you have become tired of the same old people places and things and crave something different even if the background of your life is the same. If you are looking for an outlet or a place to catch your breath and just be yourself. Somewhere that allows you to leave life and its ills at the door and just be pressure free, then I'm the one to message. I can't change your life over night or make the bad go away but I can listen and also share my thoughts with you. I'm lookign for that same outlet that I mentioned with no pressure or expectations, maybe we can be each others escape.