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20 F Astoria, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Finnish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My name is Sara. The first seven years of my life were spent in a small town on Long Island, overlooking a pretty bay and lots of pretty boats, and the next ten were spent in the small town a handful of miles to the west.

And then I moved to the city.

I… like sharing things with people. Whether it be the passing of a cute puppy on the street or a rundown on the Finnish ablative case or a bag of water chestnuts, I like sharing with people. I am rather tender-natured. I see all living things on a long plain of equality – well, except vegetables. And mosquitos. I enjoy exploring my mind and my sexuality and really, really would like to explore the world.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Junior year of college. Major: Anthropology. Concentration: Linguistics. Exploring computer science.

I like to say, “I’ve been writing for ten years,” because it sounds impressive. And it totally does, doesn’t it? If we want to be literal, I’ve been writing since the first grade, but when I was nine, when my ardor for Yu Yu Hakusho grew so heavy that my poor preadolescent heart couldn’t bear it, I sought out an avenue of expression. It was fanfiction.

I’ve since given up fanfiction, but the writing part remained. It would have happened eventually, I like to think, no matter how I fell into it. And it’s taken quite a while to admit to myself that, hey, I want to write for the rest of my life. Maybe it won’t be the main thing. Maybe it’ll be a hobby. Maybe it’ll be for NASA. But it’s what I’m doing with my life. It’s what makes me happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning things. Wanting to learn things, asking questions about things. It's a skill I'm always polishing!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lots of people see lots of different things. It depends on what they’re looking for, where I am, what I’m doing and who I’m speaking to. If I’m at a BDSM-themed party flogging somebody’s back and smiling fondly at how bright the marks are becoming, they’ll probably notice how nicely I did my makeup or the birthmark on my forearm. See? I’m being honest.

My eyes are often commented on. They’re green. Sometimes blue or gray, according to some debatably reliable sources. There’s a black dot at the tippy top of the left one. Or the right one. That I have sometimes trouble with my left and right usually isn’t one of the first things people notice. Takes a while.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'll do a list of books,

Even Cowgirls Get the Blues, Still Life with Woodpecker, Sherlock Holmes, Frankenstein, Down & Out in Paris and London, 1000 Splendid Suns, The Thief Lord, The Book Thief, When You Give a Mouse a Cookie, Crime and Punishment, Jekyll and Hyde, The Bell Jar, Inkheart, Artemis Fowl, Slaughterhouse-Five, Cat's Cradle, 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea, Around the World in 80 days, Jude the Obscure, Tess of the D'Ubervilles, Mayor of Casterbridge, A Christmas Carol, The Europeans...

and then I'll tell you...

Food: I eat mostly vegetarian but I'll usually eat most things as long as they aren't spicy. Pepperoni is the height of my tolerance.

Movies: Did somebody say Studio Ghibli? Indulgent romantic-comedy? Milo and Otis? A documentary on the secret life of chickens? If you want to take me out to a movie, I recommend either something magical or something on chickens.

Television: I like Seinfeld and I like Sherlock. I don't really watch television, but I will if you make me. Always dig cuddly TV time. How I Met Your Mother seems a very popular show people make other people watch.

Music: I was just listening to Edith Piaf. Before that I was listening to Ed Sheeran. Before that I was listening to WQXR. Music is very important to me and I feel paralysed if things are silent, but to be quite honest, darling, my taste in music shouldn't much matter to you unless you're buying me a CD. And even then, surprise me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I took this question to mean the things I carry around with me at all times, in which case, excluding my phone because, gee, I wouldn't want to seem like a generic 21st-century city girl,
a pen - I don't much care for pencils, save for when there is a scantron present or I'm sketching something,
a notebook, as of recent one without lines because a lacking of lines means a welcoming of pictures,
tea bags, because places will give you hot water for free and my tea is my favorite tea and obviously therefore the best tea,
my wallet, a long off-white number with an owl on it quoting John Lennon,
a book of some sort, a novel, short-story collection, guide on meditation, reading for class,
a lust for wandering. Because why else would I be lugging this nonsense around with me?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mundane things. Not-so-mundane things. Frozen yogurt, which falls somewhere in the middle.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The fall is here. There will be socializing. There will be laughter and Yu-Gi-Oh and twisted, ridiculous theorizing and hopefully dry red wine, on some occasions. There will be sleeping and persistent but unwise wakefulness, drowsy whispers and drowsier kisses.
There will be meandering, alone, counting my steps, counting the people I cross, sometimes floating by on automatic, lost in a hazy flurry of thoughts.

There will be dancing and purring and intimacy and the practicing of being artfully curious.

There will be learning.

There will be love.

This applying to most nights, Friday of course included.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A woman once, in a panic as the subway doors threatened to close, asked me something about the trains in Spanish, and I understood her and said, "No sé, lo siento," and was really proud of myself.

If we have a match percentage over 93 or so, you're probably also very kinky. In that case, here's the run-down, buster: if I were to get into a relationship with anybody where sexy things were involved, at this moment in time, I'd prefer that person to have more dominant tendencies, and be open to my fighting and biting and generally giving them a hard time. And then forcing me back down. Phew! Pretty darn hot. That isn't to say people who are more submissive aren't welcome, but it may not lead to a mutually sating relationship.

I can hold a conversation over text in Spanish but otherwise my Spanish is just awful.
My French is less awful and I speak exclusively in it when heavily inebriated. Whether or not it's halfway-decent French then, I have no idea.

I am magically able to go to bars.

I'm always learning. So I ask lots of questions. I'll be asking you a lot, too. Just wait. ^_^

I REALLY like the ^_^ face.

If I like you, I read your questions.
And I'm so judging you.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You speak a foreign language and would like to help me learn it.
You're very honest with yourself and with the world, or, at least, you try your very best to be.
You would like to collaborate on a writing project.
You want to go dancing!
You don't believe in superiority.
You kinda dig reading poetry. Or writing it. Sometimes living it.
You don't get skeeved out at feminism.
You're into a bunch of new-age witchy spiritual mumbo-jumbo and wouldn't mind letting me into your head and your soul for a tad bit.
You like nature. And grass. Grass is awesome.
You think labels are kinda silly. #feministpolygeeknerdfighteretcetera

If you're the type of human who's looking for a fun night and a one-night-stand, then best of luck to you, friend, OKC is a good bet. However, I'm not interested in hooking up. If sexytime occurs, it will be under the circumstances of an established and respectful relationship, long-term and monogamous or where we see each other once a month and hug it out with six other people.

I'm also into just being friends and playing board games.

Regardless of the dynamics, I'm looking for respect.
And if you can't provide that, then please kindly take your hat and show yourself out.