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cancerman4u

51 M Boulder, CO

My Details

Last Online
Dec 27, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is so strange to try to write something about yourself. It is like writing an ad and putting yourself up for sale. I have put photos that show all of me and not just my face. So that you can see that I am not 300 pounds and I am in good shape. I would like to see the same although I know that most of us are better looking in person that in our photos.

I enjoy spending time with someone and I don't just mean sex. I do enjoy learning new things together with my partner (cooking, arts the right way to put up a tent? That sort of thing). I know we all need some amount of time to our selves from time to time, but I will never stop anyone from what you need to feel free. Relationships are a 2 way street. If you don't take time to think about how the other person feels you might just be pushing them away. I believe that communication is more important than what most people think.
I enjoy walking hand in hand talking about how the day went. I remember birthdays so... if you don't like receiving flowers at work I just might not be your guy. I enjoy doing things for my friends and my partner. I am always there if a friend of needs help. I have a great sense of humor that some people just don't get. I usually have a joke or two that I tell every day. It is your choice clean or dirty.

I was diagnosed with cancer 2 years ago and it has changed my life in many different ways... mostly good. I think about things that I would never given a second thought. I am always helping with people at the cancer center who are always trying to come to grip with the new reality of their life. Most are in that state of "why is it happen to me" or "why can't I have a easy life like other people". I tell them not to focus on the why, because it is so negative, but to focus on getting better. Not to pray for an easy life but for the courage to deal with a tough life. Some people complain about having a bad day and I say they should walk a mile in my shoes just after one of my chemo treatments. That way they would be at least a mile away and have my shoes. I try my best to have a sense of humor every day even when I look at my situation. We all get bad days time to time. I like to look at this way. When I get them, as we all do I know that I only have to deal with it today and I like to get it out of the way so that tomorrow will be a better day. Most of the time I just laugh. That saying "take time to smell the roses" has set well with me. I use to work, work, work. Despite that I feel my life is going great even knowing I have cancer. My business has slowed down a bit which has given me the chance to explore new things, thinking about starting a new business I just haven't figured out what yet. The thought of moving to a tropical island is something that I would like to explore some day. Maui is what I call my second home. I am very handy to have around. There isn't much that I can't do from flipping a house to restoring an old car. I am a bit of a motor head I always have to revive some old car or house.

I am looking for someone to start out as friend, but ultimately I would rather be working on a relationship than looking for one. I would like to find someone that I can't wait to get home to. I like to go do things like movies, going to the mountains, hiking, shows, explore restaurants, etc. Have to see if you get my sense of humor, well...at least I can make you laugh for a day. I do see humor in everything.

I know that that is a lot to read, but I wanted to put enough out there so that you get an idea of who I am and not to write just a few lines.

OH... and by the way the last test I had showed that I have no more tumors. Cancer is just something that you have to manage like diabetes or high blood pressure.

SO...I think I want to take a trip to Brazil anyone want to go???

So...drop me a line I will always try to respond.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I own my own business and I always am thinking outside the box, but I wish that I could act on it more often. Doing some travel now and I am liking it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am very good at doing things with my hands. If I was on a deserted island I could build a castle with running water.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My attitude. It's always good and a disarming charm with a sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love comedies, flamingo guitar since I play a bit of classical.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) COFFEE!!!
2) a beach once in a while
3) a good laugh
4) the internet
5) a good movie
6) did I say COFFEE!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sometimes we tend to complicate our lives and I am always thinking of ways to simplify it. I am liking less stuff,.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner and a movie or a show. Half the time at home and half the time going out. No real plans, just what ever comes up I am fine with that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have to sleep with a nightlight on. Just kidding!!! My fight with cancer has been going on for 2 years and this month 7- 12 I was told that my recent scans show that the tumors are gone!!! A few more treatments and than a maintenance program. YIPPEE!!!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 43–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you have liked anything that I have said you should drop me a line. Ok ... at least if you can go for a cup of COFFEE and free tickets to Maui!!!! Well... at least the coffee for now and we can talk about the tickets to Maui. That takes about a half an hour. Ok... an hour if you like your coffee cold.