I enjoy spending time with someone and I don't just mean sex. I do enjoy learning new things together with my partner (cooking, arts the right way to put up a tent? That sort of thing). I know we all need some amount of time to our selves from time to time, but I will never stop anyone from what you need to feel free. Relationships are a 2 way street. If you don't take time to think about how the other person feels you might just be pushing them away. I believe that communication is more important than what most people think.
I enjoy walking hand in hand talking about how the day went. I remember birthdays so... if you don't like receiving flowers at work I just might not be your guy. I enjoy doing things for my friends and my partner. I am always there if a friend of needs help. I have a great sense of humor that some people just don't get. I usually have a joke or two that I tell every day. It is your choice clean or dirty.
I was diagnosed with cancer 2 years ago and it has changed my life in many different ways... mostly good. I think about things that I would never given a second thought. I am always helping with people at the cancer center who are always trying to come to grip with the new reality of their life. Most are in that state of "why is it happen to me" or "why can't I have a easy life like other people". I tell them not to focus on the why, because it is so negative, but to focus on getting better. Not to pray for an easy life but for the courage to deal with a tough life. Some people complain about having a bad day and I say they should walk a mile in my shoes just after one of my chemo treatments. That way they would be at least a mile away and have my shoes. I try my best to have a sense of humor every day even when I look at my situation. We all get bad days time to time. I like to look at this way. When I get them, as we all do I know that I only have to deal with it today and I like to get it out of the way so that tomorrow will be a better day. Most of the time I just laugh. That saying "take time to smell the roses" has set well with me. I use to work, work, work. Despite that I feel my life is going great even knowing I have cancer. My business has slowed down a bit which has given me the chance to explore new things, thinking about starting a new business I just haven't figured out what yet. The thought of moving to a tropical island is something that I would like to explore some day. Maui is what I call my second home. I am very handy to have around. There isn't much that I can't do from flipping a house to restoring an old car. I am a bit of a motor head I always have to revive some old car or house.
I am looking for someone to start out as friend, but ultimately I would rather be working on a relationship than looking for one. I would like to find someone that I can't wait to get home to. I like to go do things like movies, going to the mountains, hiking, shows, explore restaurants, etc. Have to see if you get my sense of humor, well...at least I can make you laugh for a day. I do see humor in everything.
I know that that is a lot to read, but I wanted to put enough out there so that you get an idea of who I am and not to write just a few lines.
OH... and by the way the last test I had showed that I have no more tumors. Cancer is just something that you have to manage like diabetes or high blood pressure.
SO...I think I want to take a trip to Brazil anyone want to go???
So...drop me a line I will always try to respond.