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28 F Sacramento, CA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 22
Black, White, Other
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I burn pizza to perfection. I fill awkward silences with more awkward silence. Uhhhmmmmm.

I think that sexuality, religion, and the psyche are all flowing, ever-changing things, and that they are pretty much one in the same. I spend a great deal of my time thinking about this, and about how I am ever-changing. There is a certain kind of peace, satisfaction and comfort that these thoughts bring that I can't find in other aspects of my life. This is why my status is listed as bisexual and available. I don't claim to be one sexuality because I find it limiting to do so. And I don't claim to be single because nobody owns me. I am fine as a singular unit, but very happy to let others in, and am thus available for others to enjoy. I find I make some great friendships in the process.
What I’m doing with my life
I thought I had this part figured out, but it turns out I didn't. For the longest time, I thought I wanted to own a retail space that had a secondary function as a learning center, but after working in retail, and reviewing MBA programs, I found that I'm actually not a huge fan of it, and I have a hard time reconciling my level of empathy with my need to sell to earn a living.

So, I've had to take a giant step back and think about what it truly is that I spend the most time thinking about, and think about when I'm on my death bed what it is that I really wished I had done with my time. So far, the best I've come up with is to be a fashion historian. Going back to school is an inevitability, and I think that I will go for cultural anthropology. I have a huge urge to find out what motivates people to do anything at all, and I love visual display (especially on people).

Of course, this is all a fancy way of saying that I have no fucking clue with what I'm doing with my life. Way to totally dad out, OkCupid! Don't lecture me!

When I'm not spending time neurotically thinking about what career choice to make, I enjoy learning to play bass, singing, playing guitar (and sometimes drums), fixing up my house, and dicking around on the internet. I also love to cook.
I’m really good at
Knitting, sewing, singing, thinking of things to do on a limb and on a dime, writing, telling people how their ass looks in a pair of jeans, cooking. Listening to people talk about the things that are important to them. Driving in the exact opposite direction that I'm supposed to go, while the gas tank's on empty. Going for walks, throwing my clothes all over my room to find a single matching sock.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably that I am not white, if I had to guess. Then I'd wager a bet that it's either my boobs, glasses, or sense of humor, depending on how tall you are and what direction your eyes have a tendency to wander.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I read a lot of fashion illustration and patternmaking books as reference, but 1984 by George Orwell is the constant. I could read it a hundred times over and find something new each time. I also like Joseph Campbell. Anything dealing with dystopia, astronomy, horror or mythology. I love a good fiction novel. This does not include anything on Oprah's hot list.

I am very much so diving into some sort of spiritual/philosophical abyss that may or may not occasionally require hallucinogenics, and a lot of the books I'm reading correspond to this experience. I'm reading Secret History of the World right now, and Prometheus Rising is next on my list.

Movies: Horror movies, Star Wars. I'm getting into gangster movies, and just watched The Sting.

Shows: Breaking Bad.

Music: I tend to like the classics like Fleetwood Mac, Heart, Billy Joel, Queen, Blondie, Paul Simon, Motown (especially Marvin Gaye), Prince, etc.
But I've been listening to Tortoise, Kate Bush, Zu and Frank Zappa, Höyry-kone, King Crimson a lot lately. I really like Violent Femmes, Le Tigre , Massive Attack, because apparently I live in the year 2005.
Lots and lots and lots of music. This is an abridged version of my tastes.

Food: Food. Anything, as long as there is no mayonnaise in it. Thai food is my favorite. I like vegan food and stews. Really, I just love food. Cheese, please!
The six things I could never do without
Some sort of visual aid, intellectually stimulating conversation, music and instruments, my books, some sort of fabric or fiber to manipulate, something to draw or write on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How it is that we even got to be here in the first place. Breaking Bad. Quitting my job. Neat color combinations. The unimportance of everything and how silly it is that we do most things that we do. So please go have a good time!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I own Basic Instict 2. I watched it and I didn't hate it. Also, it kind of weirds me out when people don't answer the question about their offspring.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 26–35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you don't have a Transformers tattoo. You don't do poi. You wear clothes that actually fit you. You don't wear tiny glasses.

If you'd like to discuss the following: men's rights, equal rights, the correlation between spirituality and science, gnosis, the fact that the more you know the lonelier you feel, and the overwhelming feeling wanting to break out of your skin and unlock all the secrets of the universe, of symbolism, new music, tea, and the idea that art is life, and life is art.

If you are messaging me for a one night stand, you can kindly fuck right off.

Especially message me if you're not necessarily into monogamy, and polyamory appeals to you.