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candleandwine

34 / M / Straight / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 11
Ethnicity
Asian, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Don’t let my smiley face fool you, I definitely have a feisty side to me too. I know how to enjoy the moments and make people around me feel at ease and laugh, which btw, when was the last time you had a shattering belly laugh?

I am fascinated by curiosity. I am on the train and wondering , where is he going?, what is she like in the kitchen?, what really excites her? What is one thing she wish she can have right now? When I am at a restaurant, I am curious about the ingredients that make the flavor so tantalizing. Oh..It's so addictive and engaging game that the only things that could possibly top it would be a delicious connection from a conversation.

Hate to admit it but the most adventurous things I did this week is an encounter with a off-the menu, raw marinated shrimp dish at a neighborhood Thai bistro (promise you won’t tell the Dept of Health about the underground dishes). But, I am always craving a weekend getaway to rebuild my senses (the tan too) and awaken the inner curious kid that just wanna play.

Come play with me...Trust me...we'll have a fun together.
What I’m doing with my life
Simply living a zestful life and being my best self. I have goals and dreams that pull me forward and energize my being. I am happy when I am at work because I am good at what I do and feel I am contributing to the cause (it’s a non-profit) and the people I work with. Outside of work, I have my long list of addictions and exotic friends that constantly drive me out of my comfort zone.
I’m really good at
Making homemade chicken dumplings with seasonal greens, shiitake mushrooms, freshly grounded lean chicken meat, and just a touch of fresh basil that gives an arousing surge of crispness as the flavors burst open on your first bite.
The first things people usually notice about me
“There is this edginess to him. Maybe it is the bright red pants on the weekend or the seductive pink & navy rip tie. He definitely makes a statement.” Jennifer Lawrence :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Within the infinite choices available to us in the city, I am sure you and I can easily find a few commonalities that we both heart. Even if we don't at first glance, we can use it as an excuse to explore the city together until we do.
The six things I could never do without
1. A great bottle of Pinot Noir
2. Calm & awakening morning run in Central Park
3. Hot pink cotton candies - who wants to go to a carnival?
4. The potency of celery and tomato juice that instantly inject a sense of aliveness in me
5. The bitterness of Starbucks bold coffee blended with a piece of milky chocolate truffle that burst into layers of sweetness and surprise
6. An inspiring life purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to think less or not at all during my meditation
On a typical Friday night I am
chilling...at home or out with friends, always accompanied by a stress-melting cocktail or a glass heart-warming of Shiraz
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you can see us holding hand walking in Central Park