Ok, so here's the situation. I'm unusual.
NO NO, don't leave! I meant, unusual in a really good way. Well, good to me anyway :)
Just thought I'd let you know in advance so you don't feel the shock (as much) after I tell you just how *unusual* I really am, and so you don't make the mistake of attempting to place me into a "box" and categorize me. I don't fit into boxes very well. They make me claustrophobic ;p
So you really want to know about me? Well then (*hands you the red pill*)...down the rabbit hole we go.....
I'm a eco-minded, [very] open-minded, spiritual-minded, business-minded, tree-hugging, dog-hugging, earth-hugging, quirky, non-materialistic, big big animal-lover with a sense of humor, honest, introverted, fun-loving, very down to earth, and just a little bit "crazy". Though I think in order for one to remain sane these days we all have to be just a little crazy :)
I do my best to maintain a healthy balance in body, mind, heart and soul. I also love doing what I can to help others do the same, if they want/need that sort of help in life.
I'm interested in EITHER a real friendship ("benefits" not included) OR if we both end up on the same page in deeper feelings for each other, something more than friendship. But either way for me it has to start out with a genuine, solid friendship first and foremost anyway before I'd even really want to become intimate. Guess I'm a little a-typical that way compared to most men. I just really miss having someone in my life whom I can honestly call a best friend.
My varied interests range from science, psychology and virtually all things spiritual/paranormal (with a dose of healthy skepticism), to business, philanthropy), real estate investing, "green" sustainable technology, helping animals, eco-communities, and working on doing my part to help heal this dark little world.
If your into the whole personality test thing, here's mine: INFJ
Introvert(89%) iNtuitive(100%) iNtuitive Feeling(25%) Judging(22%)
I'm fun-loving, down to earth (even though much of my interests are not as earth-bound I guess you could say), I'm "deep" in heart and mind (careful...you might fall in! hehheh) so shallowness and superficiality are not my strong points, nor attributes I like in others. Which means, petty things like your weight (as long as you're not so obese you can't enjoy hiking and other activities with me), the curvature of your ass, what you wear, your social status, what you like on your pizza, etc aren't really things that matter to me. I want to get to know your heart and mind first and foremost, and hopefully that's your primary focus as well with me.
I love dogs/wolves, they are a huge part of my life & my match must feel the same way or forget it, I don't care how hot a girl is. If she doesn't LOVE animals (of the non-human kind, that is), especially canines, then I guarantee it won't work. ;)
I'm not interested in a sex-based relationship or a 1-night-stand. My idea of being a "couple" is being really good friends first and foremost. I connect with others according to how they are on the inside and their love for/view of animals more than anything else.
I do not do/like: smoking (can't even stand the smell), drinking (unless it's sweet n creamy like Baily's, mmmmmmmm or the occasional glass of wine) or any form of drugs (I get high on life). I'm "420-friendly" only if it's genuinely medical related.
I have unusual (though I prefer to think of them as "pioneering") ideas about certain things in life & enjoy philosophical/spiritual & deep/meaningful long conversation. I'm sincere, candid, communicative, not that much into sports (unless it's dog-related sports like agility competitions and such), and I'm a big fan of cuddling and long walks through the forest. :)
I've got a sense of humor that makes some laugh hysterically and others give me that "huh?" look. Which is why I usually keep it well-tamed and within the confines of my mind, creative writing, and the internet (where all weird things belong) ;-p
I tend to be a bit of an UN-social butterfly...a cocoon if you will. Or maybe a caterpillar. Yes, that's it. Like one of those cute fuzzy ones....anyway, I'm working on that.
I am a prince of dog-lovers, a likable oddity of the human race, and an un-catagorizable a-typical male...humanoid...of some sort.
Sometimes I really wonder which mother ship I fell out of.