I'm looking to shift gears, that's why I'm here. I like to do all sorts of things...indoors and out. I prefer XC for the exercise and connection with nature. Like to kayak, hike, bike, camp, appreciate nature. That's outside. Inside I'm contemplative, geeky, sometimes awkward, sometimes funny (I try more often than succeed I suspect), introspective, non-religious.
I would be interested in someone of similar ilk yet different enough to intrigue me. Not intrigue me due to your "mysteriousness" or inability to be open, but intrigue me because of your thoughts, actions, warm heart and willingness to accept me or anybody for who they are. I think I need someone who really likes a good discussion and won't take disagreement as an offense, but maybe a turn-on, in some sort of crazy way. I mean disagreement, not a fight. I was told recently I need someone who either works a lot or has their own interests which they pursue, because I, at this point, need to have my own time to do my thing, and completely respect (and desire) your same attitude. I'm not sure that's necessarily correct but I appreciate everyone's need for space and independence. I appreciate people who are "present" and not distracted when with other people. I'm not looking to go party all the time but once in a while a wild night can be fun.