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41 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 8
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Dipping my toe into the world of meeting people online, and can't say it's comfortable, but I'm curious, and hopeful, to meet someone special to connect with and share the experience of this amazing life and place. Several long-term relationships each have made important contributions to my personal growth and capacity to love wholly. I seek a relationship where creating a family grows naturally out of deep and grounded emotional bond, and a mutual desire for living a full and joyful life - one of adventure and fun, and simple connection with ourselves and each other.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
You might find me walking at Tabor, along the Willamette bluff in NoPo or Forest Park. If I'm not walking, I might be running, or visiting with one of my favorite cats along the way. If I'm not outside, I might be playing piano or practicing qigong. If I'm not at home, I might be eating at my old stand by New Seasons, or even better, VQ, with a friend. If I'm not in town, I might be hiking or backpacking or jumping in an alpine lake, and hopefully eating huckleberries along the way. If I'm not in the wilderness, I might be working to support nonprofits and rural Oregon communities' efforts to achieve their goals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing trips, asking questions, learning, listening, understanding, being open and flexible, making lists, choosing apples, smiling, recycling plastics, dancing and well, I'd say I'm pretty good at a whole lot of things!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Feedback I seem to get is blue eyes and that I'm easy, safe and fun to talk with.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am happiest when I am getting out on adventures (especially in nature), moving my body and connecting meaningfully with friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How contradictory and complex, yet so alike, we humans are. Dancing, and how I should be doing more of it (time to move from contemplation to action). How to achieve more balance. My habits of mind and how simple it is to become present (breathe), yet how easy it is to miss or even resist that. How satisfying it is to pull weeds, eat blueberries from the plants in my front yard (yum) and get a good night's sleep. How unbelievably restorative it is to be in nature.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
See what I'm doing with my life above... I'm quite capable of having a good time in most settings. I value time with friends checking out all the region has to offer - music, hikes/backpacks, food, arts, events. Love how this town/state explodes into activity when spring/summer comes. It's like coming out of hibernation. There's so much good stuff it can be overwhelming. All that fun aside, I also enjoy quiet time alone reading, or listening to or making music.