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cape_diem

29 / M / straight / Single

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.70m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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I am witty, awesome, and well travelled.

My Self-Summary

I recently relocated for a new job and am thoroughly loving the tropical weather, even if this town might leave a bit to be desired culturally. on balance life is good. I like to think that I'm at least open minded enough that no one needs to hide anything from me. Given what's been confessed to me, I'm pretty sure that if nothing else, I've accomplished that.

I guess I should write more, but i also have a short attention span

Contrary to what most people think when they see my pictures sans hair, I am not a hitman.
And yes, cape_diem is spelled right. plucking the day is for the boring and dull

What I’m doing with my life

work. play. introspection. travelling alot. flying lessons needed to be put on hold. trying to be a less pathetic swimmer and cross the 1km/day mark in the pool, not there yet.

getting into a lot of amatuer photography, trying to figure out where I want to direct my efforts. what I lack in artistic skill I basically try to compensate for with a good body (camera body) and better lenses. it works and it doesn't.

also just starting to learn chinese on my own (this has kind of stalled). hope to get up to my japanese ability within one year. not sure how successful this will be. now developing my own business out here and loving every minute of that.

travelling. alot. Singapore is great, for that and my passport is bursting at the seams. Looking forward to some time in the states though

I’m really good at

work. play. lying about what i'm good at.

The first things people usually notice about me

my shaved head or some outlandish configuration of hair. and eyelashes. apparently my eyelashes are spectacular.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: relativity, the dancing wu li masters, traders, guns, and money

TV: the daily show, the simpsons, 30 rock

Food: sushi (real, edomae-zushi, not the crap you get anywhere outside of japan or 90% of the crap in japan), thai

Movies: donnie darko, harold and kumar, superbad, v for vendetta, shortbus, zach and miri, most of the kevin smith genre, hitman, blade, star trek (the 2009 edition), battle royale

The six things I could never do without

air, water, sustenance

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what to write here

On a typical Friday night I am

leaving on a jet plane, humming 'leaving on a jet plane', going out, or staying in

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i have no secrets, only stories i tire of repeating..

You should message me if

you're not completely typical.