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cape_diem

34 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 17
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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fyi, last edit was several months ago, slightly out of date..

To Update: I finished the SF marathon! Checked another item off life's todo list.

Update 2: pilot's license done. Another bucket list item bites the dust..

Fitness is important to me and I lift heavy things 5-7 times a week and haven't been on a "machine" in 5 years. Also, I will enjoy inhaling a Big Mac as much as a regular kale salad. 

I own a motorcycle, love riding through the mountains as much as I love flying over them at 3000 ft now that I have my pilots license. The city of S.F.'s overt hostility to cars makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside. But, I own a truck anyway.

I like to pretend I have a killer sense of humor and have performed mediocre standup comedy in college. I had one great show, which fortunately was in front of 1,200 people instead of the usual 10. If you're gonna have one success, make it count and I did. Having over a thousand people laughing on command was one of the greatest feelings I've ever had.

Also, highly GGG with a compersive partner.
What I’m doing with my life
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Launching a startup in SF.

Working out harder than I ever have before at an amazing gym I found in my neighborhood.

flying, riding (Kawasaki z1000), and surfing (though not great yet). always looking for people to ride with.

I used to freedive - I've made it to 33.3 meters (100 feet) deep in the waters off the beautiful Koh Tao in Thailand. Thats without tanks, only the air in my lungs.

Just moved back to the US after 8 years living very far away. Things like Amazon and Yelp are totally new to me. This is awesome.

Also, just to be different, I run a tech startup in San Francisco
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Things that don't include writing OKC profiles.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably the shaved head. I've gotten compliments on my cranium.

Also, my eyelashes. Apparently, and I have no idea if this is true or not as the notion of eyelashes being an element of beauty is kind of foreign to me, my eyelashes are spectacular.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: game of thrones snowcrash, american gods, relativity, the dancing wu li masters, traders, guns, and money

TV:game of thrones, archer, battlestar galactica, the daily show, the simpsons

Food: szechuan sushi thai

Drink: single barrel whisky, american bourbons and ryes. real rum (kraken and up). Drink rarely but want to enjoy it when I do.

Movies: donnie darko, harold and kumar, superbad, v for vendetta, shortbus, zach and miri, most of the kevin smith filmography, blade, battle royale, forgetting sarah marshall, get him to the greek, secretary
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air.

Water.

Food-like-deliciousness from our atrocious industrial agriculture system, also real food.

beating myself up over the occasional failures.

The ridiculous wealth of information that is now nearly globally, universally accessible within seconds. Vacations are one thing, but I'm hooked for life on the internet.

I'm not gonna lie, my cat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My raging techno-optimism. For all the problems that still exist, in the grand scheme of human history, we live in a truly amazing period. As Americans, all the moreso. Even in the poorest parts of the world, rates of malnutrition, disease, war, and even just plain violence are universally at the lowest point that they've been in human history. Our work may not be finished, but thats no reason not to be damn proud of how far we've come.

On a more personal note, how crazy is it that with this little block of glass in my pocket, I can access 99% of recorded human knowledge within seconds. For less than a month's salary, most people can travel between almost any 2 points in the world in less than 24 hours in unparalleled safety. Sure the service might suck, but the incredible safety record of our airlines is amazing. In the last 10 years, more people were executed by Rick Perry than died in commerical air crashes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working, studying, flight prepping or partying. sometimes I'll give lyft rides for fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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katy perry
You should message me if
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You just should. I have references available upon request.

On the other hand, if you aren't comfortable with ethical non-monogamy, maybe you shouldn't. I'm very open with my fiancé and we will talk about our dating lives.

On a serious note, I know the "casual sex" thing can be a red flag. But, lets be honest, for the right person, 99% of men and a good chunk of women would put that too if they were being honest. Its not the only thing I'm looking for but to deny that its an option is a pretty transparent lie, so there it is.

Having said that, I vastly prefer to have meaningful, ongoing connections than one-offs.