I am intelligent, fierce, and an All-American Geek.
My Self-Summary
Greetings, salut, hola, guten tag, hello! I'm just a girl looking
for someone to make a connection with (oh, the cliche!). I'm a born
writer at heart (it's all I ever want to do), but I'm a total
extrovert despite any possible stereotype. I love hanging out with
people and participating in every sort of geek activity. I'm really
passionate, and therefore compassionate, but I'm also very honest.
I'm very opinionated and believe very strongly in my opinions, but
I really enjoy a friendly debate or just discussing different
views. I may seem young as I'm going into my senior year of high
school, but I'm confident in my maturity - I grew up the youngest
of my entire family (my only brother alone is nine years older than
me), and most of my friends are university students because I'm as
comfortable with older peers as my younger ones (though I should
note that in the way of a relationship, a partner between the ages
of 18 and 20 would work the best for me at the moment). It's true
I'm kind of high maintenance and "girly" nowadays, a far cry from
the extreme tomboy-ism of my past, but my personality is very
eclectic and I still rough house with my guy friends every once in
a while. I love to laugh and talk, but I'm happy just enjoying the
company of people I adore, as well - no matter the activity.
I forgive a lot easier than I should, which can be a negative
considering I'm trying to be civil and act as amicable as ever when
the other person may still be holding a grudge.
I'm looking for someone who's interested in a relationship, of
either gender. I'm very compassionate, but I don't tend to smother,
ha. I really enjoy intelligent people or just people with a
genuinely great and open personality. I really appreciate and am
drawn toward people with confidence or strong opinions, but I've
had satisfying experiences with quiet, sweet partners as well. I'm
not really looking for casual dating or a fling, but an actual
relationship. To be honest, however, when it comes to significant
others I don't enjoy completely submissive or shy partners. I like
others who are already confident in themselves or willing to
explore. I'm perfectly capable of standing up for myself, but I
feel it really shows they care when my partner takes care of me as
well. I'm not saying, "FIGHT FOR MY HONOR", but I'm looking for
more than someone who wants a no-frills, no-effort girlfriend. I
pull out all the stops for everyone in my life I care about. Sick
at home at 4:00 am? I'll be there in twenty with extra meds,
blankets, and homemade soup. Insulted honor? I'll be there in ten
and the gloves are coming off. I like to get a tiny bit of effort
in return in a committed relationship.
I don't discriminate between body types (I'm no hypocrite, haha),
but I love people who take care of themselves, no matter their
size. I know I'm "full figured" but I compete in two varsity sports
a year and keep active in my job over the summer. This doesn't mean
I expect you to be an all-star athlete or a habitual
10-mile-a-morning runner (-shiver-, running...), but taking care of
yourself and being aware of both your appearance and body is both
big for me in life and relationships. Being confident about both
your personality and body is important, I believe.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm going into my senior year of high school and missing all my
friends who have scattered to the four winds with the start of
college classes. I'm working through piles of college applications
- I look forward to studying
creative writing and
journalism with possible
minors in marketing and sociology. I play two varsity sports a year
(just
water
polo this year because of my increased focus on preparing for a
career and university), this is my seventh year of playing the
viola, I'm an award
winning journalist for my school newspaper, I consistently
volunteer for technical crew for my school's internationally
renowned musical program (I was never the ballerina, but I have a
great love for the arts), and this year I'm dual enrolling by
taking some college
writing courses to add some more
academics to my senior year (I know, I'm a nerd <3 ).
During the summer I work as a live-in lifeguard/swim teacher for a
non-profit summer camp for under privileged kids.
I’m really good at
writing, water polo, flirting, technology, as well as various
little tidbits.
The first things people usually notice about me
My body (I'm an athlete with curves - love it or leave it), my
personality (I'll let you know right away who I am and what I think
- but I'm warm as sugar, so no worries <3 ), and then my
intellect (I can throw words at you your English professors don't
even know, but I love just chatting too).
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I love so many books - everything from timeless classics to trashy
little guilty pleasures. The same goes for movies; I'm a big movie
junkie, but I'm a little elitist. I love action/sci-fi movies as
well as well-made films in general. I love all sorts of music
(everything from musicals to metal), except I'm not a huge fan of
rap. However, I can get into the right song of it. I adore food in
general, haha. I love everything from calamari and caviar to
buttery, cheesy grilled ham sandwiches at home.
The six things I could never do without
-Men
-Women
-The English language
-Internet
-My best friend, Dill
-Fine foods
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life, society, my characters, stories, sex, and my future. I'm sure
kittens get thrown in there somewhere, too.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my gang, looking for a party, relaxing at home
with my laptop and a good desert, or out chilling in a coffee house
until late.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Goodness, I'm such an open book. Ask and you shall receive.
However, I will mention that I do have quite the few kinks. I'm not
a scat fan or anything, and I'd like to think I'm no freak, but
let's just say I'm quite eclectic. I think sex, an essential part
of any human's life, should be fully experienced between two
emotionally committed adults in many ways. Some of those ways just
happen to involve rope.
You should message me if
You're interested by my profile and think you can handle dealing
with it all, ha. I may not return the attraction, but I'm always
flattered (if you're polite and can actually speak the English
language with any small manner of finesse, of course - this means
'hey how r u' won't cut it, kids).