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38 Philadelphia, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:44am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I started this year really enjoying my new job and my new house. Both were really big but essential changes for me last year. Either I'm still in the honeymoon phase or I genuinely like my job and the people I work with. I still get kind of bummed that I wasn't able to make a career of journalism. But I enjoy what I do and I make a good living with plenty of time for a life.

So I'm pretty athletic: running, swimming, biking, triathlons, marathons, weight lifting. Yadda yadda. I used to compete a whole lot, but lost the desire. It became hard to parlay coming in somewhere between top 5%-20% into a reason to wake up at 5 or 6am on Sunday mornings. So now I just run around the city shirtless.

I like, appreciate, value, and spend my time doing a lot more. Travel, reading about politics, mediating, and other fun stuff. Feel free to ask.

I'm here to date. I respect that others are looking for other things, but at this stage of my life "just sex" has little appeal, so if you're looking for that (or already have a boyfriend), we are not for each other.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
[See above]
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
[See above]

Animals and children love me. I'm still working on the people thing. I reenact Anne Baxter's final scene from "All About Eve" before going to a party or large gathering, sure I can't do it but convinced by Addison DeWitt that I will put on the performance of my life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Harry Potter; We Disappear; Mysterious Skin; The Salt Point; Middlesex; A Boy's Own Story; Dream Boy; The Picture of Dorian Gray; Bastard Out of Carolina; Saint Foucault; Epistemology of the Closet; Giovanni's Room; Eat, Pray, Love; The Stories of John Cheever

Classic: All About Eve; Auntie Mame
Musicals: Hedwig and the Angry Inch; Pete's Dragon; Best Little Whorehouse In Texas
Drama: Beautiful Thing; Elizabeth; Steel Magnolias; The Hours; Network; Candleshoe
Camp: Mommie Dearest; Death Becomes Her; Ticked-Off Trannies With Knives; Girls Will Be Girls; Batman Returns
Comedy: 9 to 5; Muriel's Wedding; Drop Dead Gorgeous
Sci-Fi/Fantasy, Superman I; Superman II; Superman Returns; The Lord of the Rings; X-Men; Star Wars; Star Trek

Game of Thrones; Mad Men; Damages; Battlestar Galactica; Dr. Who; RuPaul's Drag Race; The Golden Girls; Project Runway; Days of our Lives; Star Trek: TNG, DS9, and Voyager

Carole King, Joni Mitchell, James Taylor, Dianne Reeves, Diana Krall, Alice Peacock, Rufus Wainwright, Michael Buble, The Killers; Muse; Monica Mancini, Natalie Cole, Patsy Cline, Jackson Browne, Loreena McKennitt, Queen, Aerosmith, The Doors, Charo, Simon & Garfunkel, Black Eyed Peas

The only thing I won't eat is cream chipped beef. "What do I look like: Beetle Bailey?" - Sophia Petrillo
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Change of seasons
Seltzer water
Patience on the part of those around me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Days of our Lives; men; or the men on Days of our Lives
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner or some other excursion with friends
You should message me if
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.... you don't want to. (See what I did there with the reverse-psychology?)