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captaindigital

57 M McKinney, TX

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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CHAPTER ONE

“Oh, they have live music tonight,” you think, as you walk in the club. As you’re seated near the bandstand, you notice it’s a singer who plays guitar and keyboards. As you finish your appetizer, you notice the music – and the musician – more and more, and are paying less attention to the friend at your table. At one point, you find yourself staring at him without realizing it. He notices you and smiles. You smile and look away. Just as you finish your meal, you hear him say, “I’m going to take a brief break. I’ll be back in a few.” He gets up and walks over to your table.

“Hi. I was wondering if there’s anything you’d like to hear this evening.”

With a puckish smile, you look up at him and say, “What are you doing for the rest of your life?”

There’s an obvious pause, as he looks at you with his blue eyes, an ironic smile playing around his lips. You feel as though he’s looking deep inside you.

“It’s a song,” you offer.

He smiles. “I know.” He looks at your friend. “Do you mind if I sit down?” Your friend graciously acquiesces, and excuses herself from the table.

“So, how long have you been playing,” you ask.

“Seems like forever,” he replies. “I grew up in a musical family – five generations, in fact. And my teenage daughter makes six. I started playing drums when I was four,” he continues. “Picked up the guitar in my 20s. I play vibes, keyboards, a little bass and some other instruments as well.”

Now, you’re curious. “So you earn your living playing music? That must be fun.”

“No,” he says. “I used to. But during the day, I’m a marketing director for a large church. And I have my own agency, where we design websites, create 2D animation, and handle marketing for clients.” He continued, “I play music because I love it. Graphic design and marketing pay the bills.”

You notice he’s not wearing a ring. “Your girlfriend must love getting private concerts.”

He smiles. “If I had a girlfriend, I’m sure she would.”

“Why aren’t you seeing someone?” you ask.

“Well, I guess the right woman hasn’t come along yet.”

You shake your head. “It can’t be that difficult.”

“You’d be surprised,” he replies. “I’m looking for a woman with a wicked wit, tall, with girl-next-door good looks.” He pauses. “I want someone that can hold their own in a discussion with me, and is self-possessed, self-confident, and classy.” He leans forward towards you. “I’ll tell you a little secret. I’ve never been drunk. Or stoned.” You look a little doubtful, as he is a musician. “And I’m allergic to tobacco smoke, and I absolutely detest tattoos.” He leans back in his chair. “I couldn’t help but notice that you’re tall as you walked in.” You smile to yourself. “And from that line about the song title, I’d guess you have a pretty well-developed sense of humor.”

You nod. “I can hold my own.”

“I’ll bet you can,” he says. What’s your stand on tattoos?”

“Hate ‘em.”

“I’m afraid I’ve got to get back to the bandstand and play another set. Will you be here, when I finish?” he asks.

“I guess you’ll just have to wait and see.”

Midway through his last set, he looks up and notices your table’s empty. He frowns to himself, then turns as one of the waiters approaches him.

“The lady at table nine left this for you,” as the waiter hands you a card with your name and number on it. He pockets the card, and thinks, “This could be the beginning of a beautiful friendship."
What I’m doing with my life
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I am the marketing and communications director for a large church. I do some freelance work, in animation and web design. Some nights, I perform locally as a solo act, as a musician in pit orchestras for musicals, and in a couple of bands. And I'm a full-time dad to a brilliant, talented, vivacious, teenage daughter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...a lot of things. Graphic design, computer programming, music – performing, songwriting, teaching, orchestrating, arranging, creative writing, woodworking, designing, voiceovers, and a bunch of other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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...is that I'm intelligent and articulate. Or they notice that I'm 6'4" and have very dark brown hair, a mustache and goatee, and blue eyes. I'm easy – I'll take it either way. If you meet me online, you'll first notice that I'm unashamedly a Conservative and fan of the U.S. Constitution - and I'm not shy about expressing myself politically. (Oh, and if you're a Liberal/Progressive I really don't think we'll hit it off.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand is my favorite book outside the Bible. I'm not an Ayn Rand fanboy (she was a hypocrite in my book, and I can't resolve her philosophy with the way she lived her life), but I like her ideas on self-reliance and the value of creativity and hard work. I'm also into mysteries, suspense, humor, and technical books.

I think the early films of Mel Brooks, Monty Python & the Holy Grail, and the Blackadder comedies are some of the funniest things ever put on film. I'm also a fan of suspense, thrillers, mysteries, and other movies that make you think.

I love a good steak, almost any kind of seafood, and most kinds of meat. I've been called a 'meatatarian' or a 'carboholic.' Not into salads. Ever. (Q: if vegetarians eat vegetables, what do humanitarians eat?) I'm also a pretty decent cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God
my daughter
my musical instruments (and I have a lot of them – guitars, drums, vibes, keyboards...)
my iPhone/iPad/MacBook Pro
books
my woodworking tools
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whirled peas and shaving the whales. (Sorry. That question sounds like something they'd ask a beauty pageant contestant, and I couldn't help myself.) I dunno...I spend a lot of time thinking, period. And I'm all over the map about the subject matter. Perhaps the best way to answer that question is for us to have a free-wheeling conversation on any number of topics. It's sort of "puddle of consciousness", I suppose...I seem to have trouble with moving water.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. Which is a shame, because I'd much rather be having some serious fun with my significant other. Where ARE you, anyway? Haven't you gotten my messages?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That would be telling. And I'm NOT telling. Well...I'll tell you, but not here...well...okay. Since it's YOU, I'll tell you. I do character voices. So if you've always wanted people to hear Bullwinkle, Hank Hill, Ralph the Dog, Kermit, or Yogi Bear on your voice mail message, I'm your guy.
You should message me if
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You're tall (come on...I'm 6'4". if you're under 5'6", I'm gonna be staring at your scalp when we dance). If you see yourself as attractive, very intelligent, with a quick wit, a kind heart, and you enjoy talking, as well as music and art. You are passionate about life, but see the humor in most things, then we need to talk.

You should NOT message me if:
• you have TATTOOS (even little ones)
• if you SMOKE (even a little)
• if you get drunk or high on a regular basis
• if you don't think of yourself as intelligent
• if you don't have recent, accurate photos
• if your weight is not proportionate to your height
• if your into DRAMA as a lifestyle choice

If ANY of the above is true, please do us both a favor and move along...nothing to see here.

On the other hand, if you fit my description and I fit yours, let's talk!