About me: I'm just your standard romantic and analytical, funny and philosophical, passionate and physical, intellectual and emotional type'a guy.

Romantic? I love Jane Austen books and all things romantic. Analytical? I enjoy using my mind to solve problems. Funny? Love comedy, Seinfeld, SNL, Colbert Report, etc.. Also little practical jokes and teases, for people I like. And if you tease me back? Even better.

Philosophical? I'm always looking for ways to grow in wisdom. Passionate? That one is hard to explain in words--I might need a personal demonstration... Physical? I love sports and working out. Intellectual and emotional? Well, I'm intelligent and well-read, and I feel things deeply--such as joy, and love for the right woman.

All this in one man? Can it be true? Yes, it's true. One day, girl, all this could be yours... Plus, I come with 30-year money back guarantee.
The deal: We get married, and if in 30 years you're not happy -- FULL REFUND.

My greatest love is probably music -- listening and playing. I play piano and guitar. Lots of genres, and lots of artists. I love the passionate feelings that I can hear and express in music.

I also love working out, like I said... I was a skinny kid, so I've worked really hard on my body... But I grew to really love it. My body just feels completely alive and exhilarated after a good workout.

And I *love* playing tennis! My favorite sport. Like working out, it's a natural high for me.

I also love my family and my great friends. I've always had guy friends, but through my work, I've made a lot more female friends, and that's been fanastic. They've added so much joy to my life, and they've been being really caring.

I've love romance, though I can be picky about finding the right woman. I love the beauty of women, but physical beauty alone won't be enough for me. When I do find an exceptional woman, I love romancing her. I love to see her eyes light up when I do things to make her feel beautiful, sexy, and special. When I'm out her, I love to make her feel completely taken care of. I love to make a woman feel safe and protected as long as she's with me. I love to take the lead with her romantically, and to be someone strong for her to lean on.

What I'm looking for in a woman:
(I noticed there's no section for that...)

What I look for above all in a woman is goodness of heart, as well as positivity. Another thing I find deeply attractive is that she's still in touch with the little girl inside her: she can still get overcome with enthusiasm, she can still be mischievous and playful, and can just let herself go and be childlike and silly sometimes. Another must for me is that she be able to make me laugh.

For me, these qualities represent inner beauty. I seem to meet many very attractive women through online dating, but it's rare thing for her to also have these qualities of inner beauty. But when she does, she really stands out above all the others. Often I'll see signs of that inner beauty immediately -- in her eyes, or in her smile. But other times I find I only discover it as we write back and forth, and get to know each other.

In relationships, I love it when women do romantic things for me. I love it when she compliments me, or does little things to make me feel appreciated. I love it when she dresses up for me, or just comes over and gives me a neck massage (mmm, love those any time!), or sends me an unexpected flirty note or text message.

Working at a hospital in the medical records department, working on self-improvement, trying to stay sane by keeping a sense of humor about life, love, and online dating.

tennis, computers, writing, caring, creating, workout out, bringing women intense physical pleasure (just teasing -- or am I??)

smart, eyes, bod, funny, ability to walk through walls

Books - Jane Austen novels, Lord of the Rings, self-improvement books, All Creatures Great and Small books
Movies - All types and genres. From Citizen Kane to Wayne's World, from Sleepless in Seattle to Raiders of the Lost Ark.
Music - My favorite art form! Rock (most types), classical, some world music, older popular music (Sinatra etc). Some faves -- Bach, The Who, Mozart, The Beatles, Moby, Enya, Dylan, Springsteen. So long as it's got PASSION, dude!
Food - Chinese -- love it. Almost as good as sex. (I wonder if there's some way of combining them...)
TV: Seinfeld, Colbert Report, SNL

1. Music
2. Great friends
3. Laughter, humor
4. Positive people
5. The beauty of women (inner and outer)
6. My morning coffee

Psychology, love, relationships, friends, why my $!%@#!! computer isn't working. (And I majored in computer science! I feel so sorry for people who didn't!)

Swinging from chandeliers, dancing on tables, singin' lead in a rock band, doing the mumba, jogging down main street in my black thong speedo, fightin' off hordes of love-hungry ladies (hey, was that you last Friday?) -- you know, the usual stuff...

Okay, maybe I exaggerated that, a bit. It varies, depending on if I'm on a date, or meeting my work friends, or just wanna crash after a day's work.

I suck in bed. No, that's too private. (Kidding!!!) Okay, this is for real: I sometimes secretly watch weepy movies on Lifetime Network. But hey, I am still a MANLY MAN.

....you got any sense, sister!

Come on, face it, I'm just plain rresistible! Stop fighting it. ;)

Seriously, message me if... you are a cool and unique person. I think that's a good place to start. Cause I like to hang with cool and unique people. It doesn't have to be a romantic kinda thing with me. Even if you're a dude, and want to write, and you're cool and unique, I'd like to hear from ya. (Although if you're lookin' for love, you might want to work on your search parameters...)

When there's time, I think it's fun just to chat with different types of people, and maybe makes new friends and have some new adventures with them. I think it's one reason we're here... ;)

[ SPECIAL NOTE: It's okay for you to be just "cool". You don't need to be "supercool", like me. ;) ]

As for women with romance on their minds: read what I wrote about me and what I'm looking for, and if it doesn't describe you, and you don't really want to make a new friend, move on. (If your profile heading is "hot but crazy", definitely move on!) But if you thought I might be describing you, take a chance -- write me. We only live once, and we never know about the chances we let slip by.

Either way: good luck, and I hope you find your special man.

Be well.

-K