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30 Albuquerque, NM Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 21
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am playful, candid, and inquisitive

If you want to know more about my "religion" give this a listen:

I kinda call myself an apathetic agnostic... we can't know, so I don't bother wasting time on the impossible.

That should have taken care of most of those I tend to not be able to take seriously, or get into pointless arguments with.

I am looking for all sorts of things in other people and relationships. I want close friends, I want a partner in crime who wants to go out and raise hell, I'm holding out hope for a life-partner(s) who understands and embraces my lifestyle, the list really goes on and on...
What I’m doing with my life
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Working the night shift sorting body parts... I really like this job and body parts are awesome!

Getting ready to go back to school for my Masters! Getting in on research! Woot!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've become quite adept at learning too much for my own good. Being adorable.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Around people who like to talk, typically that I really like to talk also.

If they are shy, I have trouble breaking the proverbial ice, so usually they think I am shy.

I think I am avoiding the question because I really don't know.

I hear "It's always the quiet ones." in reference to myself a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A: I love literature... especially if it is on Audible... that's how I pass time at work.

B/C: I like movies, but I don't LOVE movies. My favorite is Lion King. I am more into a lot of the HBO and Showtime T.V. shows that are being made now Dexter, True Blood, Weeds, Californication, there are probably a few more that I don't remember right now.

D: I have this funky relationship with punk-pop, people might label my tastes emo. Currently I am really into the bands Ludo, Green Day, and Motion City Soundtrack between them Fall Out Boy and Panic! At the Disco, I am pretty happy to put on my mp3 player and tune out. I also enjoy most Classic Rock (contrary to popular opinion that the 80's were the best decade for music; I'm torn between the 60's and 70's), as well as bands like Foo Fighters, and Third Eye Blind. Lately I've been on a Less Than Jake, Bowling for Soup, and Fun. kick.

I have tried to get more into country and hip-hop, but generally I like 1 out of ever 10 or 15 songs I hear, sometimes less. Though I won't stop trying. I have hated raw carrots since well before I can remember, and every once in a while, I will forget what they taste like and say to myself, "they can't be that bad." I eat one, and hate it. My point is, that I will usually keep stopping back occasionally to see if my tastes change, cause you never know.

E: Sushi, hands down! Followed by ice-cream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Purpose and perspective.

Home or a safe happy place.

Intellectual challenge.

Friends and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Education and American culture. I love teaching and exploring new ways to think about and communicate ideas. I also love to learn about how we process information and really its relationship to the neuropsychological process of learning.

Skeptical thought and how hard it is to walk the line between being a skeptic and keeping friends. *sigh* I just don't encounter a lot of fellow skeptics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays just don't seem to end up with me doing much, but Saturday and Sunday nights can get pretty crazy. I love going out, socializing, and living life as fully as I can.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love conversation and exploring complex ideas. I'm open and fun. However I do have a tendency to miss social cues, and can be awkward. I try to compensate by being patient and honest.

I am polyamorous. I am seeking people who may want to become a part of my poly-family here in Albuquerque, and I would be very happy to share what that means to me, if it is something you are curious about.

I have a steady boyfriend here in ABQ and a girl who may become more in the near future; you must be down with the poly thing if we are going to be more than friends.

Also, on the topic of interpersonal drama, I'm not a fan of it... I'm a little too... busy... for it.
You should message me if
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You want to talk. I always like to talk. Feel free to message me if are interested in any of the same stuff. Though if you message me and WANT me to respond, PLEASE say something more than "You're pretty." "We should chat" or something inane like that... I need something to go off to make conversation with... Say something interesting please!

I can be critical but I don't intend offense. I figure that if you can't give me anything interesting to talk to you about, then I can feel free to give you the constructive criticism you may need to get better responses on your profiles. No harm intended, I am trying to help, I'm sorry if you cannot take some honesty. And if you cannot then we don't have much hope together anyway.

Also if you have your shit together; you know what you want in life, you are stable, and you can be relied on.

Please don't message me if you want to cyber or hook-up... that's boring... I can get laid whenever I like, and internet/text sex is just not really interesting...

Hope that doesn't scare too many people away.
I may be sweet and kind and loving, but I am also not desperate and attention-starved.