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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:33pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
My self-summary
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I'm a very happy person and I am trying my best to enjoy every minute of being alive. I play several instruments, some better than others, and can be found performing with my current band (name available upon request) most weekends. I have two dogs whom I adore, a thriving garden that smells alive and a motocycle that is my constant companion on sunny NW days.

I'm in an open relationship with my best friend and partner dayglowflamingo. We've been open for four years and enjoy meeting and experiencing new connections with others. We date separately and together. I enjoy like-minded people who are in a similar relationship dynamic, or who feel positively about ethical open relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working towards making a musical career prosperous enough for me to quit my day job.
Working towards a BA in echocardiography. Whichever comes first
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, cleaning, fixing things, painting, singing, general shenanigans and tomfoolery. Becoming fascinated by new things and being unapologetically myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Oh I hope it's my smile. Smilings my favorite. I like to think of myself as having an approachable and pleasant demeanor. At least....that's what I'm shooting for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm always on the look out for well produced documentaries. If I could, I would have Brian Cox and Neil DeGrasse Tyson follow me everywhere and explain things to me. Current addiction: BBC's The Wonders of Life.

"Look Around You' is one of my all time favorite shows. But really only the first season. You should definitely message me if you 're also a fan, or want to become one!

Music is like food for me and I'm always checking out new artists. some favorites old and new: Caveman, Pinback, Alex Winston, Tears for Fears, Stone Roses, the Cloud Cult, LOW, Moderat

I also listen to a fair amount of podcasts. A few of my favorites being: Radiolab, probably science, professor blastoff, Harmontown, my brother my brother and me, and Risk!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A question.
A companion (human or canine).
A musical instrument.
A lover.
A tasty beverage.
A soft place to rest my head.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Space. The distance between us and the nearest rocky/watery planet. What the trillions of cells in my body are doing at this very moment without my having to tell them to do so. Why efficient solar energy is still beyond our grasp.

and.....where are my keys!?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Fridays are currently open for adventures with fun new people!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love vacuuming. Seriously. Dont tell my partner though, because I want to look like I'm being helpful and not gleefully pretending to push a hungry robot around the house.

Also; smart, pretty girls in glasses melt me....
You should message me if
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You're looking for something fun, easy, lighthearted and joyful.

You are a single lady or fellah OR also in an ethical open relationship and want to have some fun with a really great guy. ;)

You are a couple seeking some rad new friends for ridiculous fun-times.

You have a recipe to share (no shellfish though, I'll die!! Allergic! ahh!!!)