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carbrilee
38 / F / straight / Single
Newton, New Jersey
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Respect/relationships/your opinion
Is there really any point in continuing a relationship with someone
that you may have once loved and respected but no longer do?
And if you do then what does that say about you? Apparently you have no respect for yourself if you don't think you deserve the whole package.
Any thoughts?
And if you do then what does that say about you? Apparently you have no respect for yourself if you don't think you deserve the whole package.
Any thoughts?
Sometimes it takes awhile to face the pain. And also, it's not
black and white when it comes to "once" and "no longer." In my
experience it's very possible to love and hate someone at the same
time. Deeply.
A former user commented on
well what would be the point on continuing? i dont see one!
A former user commented on
Is there really any point in continuing a relationship with
someone that you may have once loved and respected but no longer
do?
No. Not if you want to be happy.
Apparently you have no respect for yourself if you don't think you deserve the whole package.
I don't understand what you mean here.
renaissgirl commented on
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A former user commented on
Manipulate them to be what you want. It not who they are, it's who
you are.
A former user commented on
I mean that if you are willing to stay with someone even though you
no longer respect them then somewhere along the way you lost
respect for yourself if you don't believe you deserve the whole
package, as in being in a mutually respectful and loving
relationship. IN other words i know quite a few people who are in
unsatisfying relationships out of some kind of desperation that
they will never find anyone else.
carbrilee commented on
OK
renaissgirl commented on
"I mean that if you are willing to stay with someone even though
you no longer respect them then somewhere along the way you lost
respect for yourself if you don't believe you deserve the whole
package, as in being in a mutually respectful and loving
relationship. IN other words i know quite a few people who are in
unsatisfying relationships out of some kind of desperation that
they will never find anyone else."
That is why I always pull out.
A former user commented on
i know quite a few people who are in unsatisfying relationships
out of some kind of desperation that they will never find anyone
else.
This behavior is loving of neither the self nor of the other person. It's inhumane.
skinnyartnerd commented on
Carly Simon wrote a song about this. "The Stuff that Dreams Are
Made of." It's a good tune.
JaredOnOKCupid commented on
u should just be happy with what u can get carbrilee, u seem stuck
up an i dont no why u r an ugly bitch
A former user commented on
I have noticed a trend. A number of very intelligent women will
jump to a negative conclusion about a man in a relationship. Then
act on their conclusion without validating their conclusion is
correct... I think the most important thing a woman in a
relationship can do is not let anxieties or history play a role. It
is easier to ask than assume... I have seen more than a few women
involved with complete losers just because the guy is a known
quanity; rather than deal with unknown.
ThorbyBaslim commented on
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