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30 M Saint Louis, MO

My Details

Last Online
Apr 13
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a nurse working with the mentally ill. My passion is for community health and combating health disparities and social inequalities, but also in understanding how different individuals experience the world, and how this shapes their behaviors, and affects their relationships with others. In my spare time I hike, read, write, cook, bike, and spend time with friends.
What I’m doing with my life
See above. I also volunteer with organizations that promote community health, am writing and revising a short story-turned-novella, and am gradually preparing to pursue a masters in global health. Oh, and I'm taking a free online class through Harvard.
I’m really good at
Referencing this interesting article I read, or this really good story I heard on NPR, or that time I was a tour guide in Alaska / an English teacher in South Korea / a student in Beijing / a volunteer in India/Kenya/Haiti and blank and blank happened to such and such.

Making the best of things.

Reluctantly using emoticons : )

Being goofy. Blah bliggedy blah blah. See how goofy that was of me to type that? There's more.

Not getting tired. Being productive.

Asking questions. Making conversation.

Not caring too much about anything that doesn't really matter. There are a lot of things that don't really matter.
The first things people usually notice about me
Now that you mention it, I've noticed the following thoughts arising in strangers who notice me :
"My nurse tonight is a man."
"That guy is kind of cute." OR "That guy is so-so." (I read something that says guys overestimate how attractive women find them; hence - as a guy - I tend to assume the former over the latter.)
"That crazy guy is bicycling in the cold rain."
"I wonder what book he is reading."
"Man, that guy talks loud when he's excited."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I understand the point of this question, but please tell me we have more in common than this consumerist bullshit.
The six things I could never do without
Just don't chain me down and deprive me of my freedom and I think I'll do just fine.
Also, I find the prospect of losing my intellect or mental health terrifying.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My patients
What I'll eat today
The route I'll take on my bike
Is the weather so shitty I should just drive?
What kind of workout I'll do
How I should revise the story I'm working on
When will I next head off into the woods for a hike?
When can I have friends over for dinner again?
My work/life balance
Various social issues
How sick of dating I am / How many interesting people I've met through online dating
On a typical Friday night I am
I seem to work a lot of friday nights. When I'm not working, I do things that are fun. And pretty much everything is fun, though i can't say I'm a fan of drinking shitty beer in a shitty bar that plays shitty music really loud.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't give a shit about the Cardinals. Sue me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are passionate about public health and the socioeconomic aspects of medicine.

You take care of your body, are educated, informed, open-minded, compassionate, socially conscious, have a positive attitude, a good sense of humor, & are consistent in communication.

If you don't live within the city, I probably will not contact you or respond to messages. I spend as little time driving as possible.

Please do not message me from Tennessee at 3 in the morning to say "Hey sexy." That is just dumb.