I hope that last paragraph doesn't sound too negative. I'm really quite nice. I enjoy absurd conversation on ridiculous subjects, where you end up laughing until you cry. "Yes, and..." is so important. I love art and learning. I love hearing people talk about the things they're intersted in and knowledgable about, no matter how boring they think it is (it's not). I'm a bit of a news junkie. I like feeling engaged with the world around me, and I like people who are the same.
I like things that take a bit of an effort, and I like people who are more than glad to make it. Making a complicated meal rather than ordering in, dressing up on occasion because it's fun, watching a movie or reading a book that is a bit more complex than normal, or just doing something you know you're not good at because why the hell not-- these are the things that sound like fun to me. Like anyone else, I love my comfortable spots (reading in dive bars or watching Archer while wearing soft pants probably eating cheese), but I generally feel that life without some stretching is hardly a life.