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carefulsnail

57 / F / straight / Single

Hudson, New Hampshire

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Kudos to OKCupid!

It's been a little more than two months since I joined OKC. So far it's been fun and insightful. I've met a few interesting people and viewed the profiles of many more. I've learned, not just about online dating but about myself.

Many things about the subtle workings of OKC remain a mystery, like how many of the ratings are determined. But one of the lessons is to not take it all too seriously and just go with the flow.

And so it goes.....
It's been a little more than two months since I joined OKC. So farit's been fun and insightful. I've met a few interesting people andviewed the profiles of many more. I've learned, not just aboutonline dating but about myself.

Many things about the subtle workings of OKC remain a mystery, likehow many of the ratings are determined. But one of the lessons isto not take it all too seriously and just go with the flow.

And so it goes.....
Kudos to OKCupid!
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YeOldeGoat commented on

An image of Spandau_Ballet I'm curious. What have you learned specifically?

Spandau_Ballet commented on

An image of carefulsnail To Spandau_Ballet: I'm guessing that you're more curious about the subtle working of OKC more than you might be about what I've learned about myself! Well, I must confess that I know more about the later than the former. I've learned that I should be more lighthearted about all of this and that, when I decide I'd like to send a message, I should invest less time and effort in the writing and be open to a variety of responses (including no response). I've also think I need to find some happy smiley photos of myself. I beleive they are intentionally mysterious. A self-proclaimed nerd like yourself has probably figured out as much or more that I. Good luck in your search.

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