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carib95

41 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:30pm
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
My evolution is constant. I embrace the complexity of each person in my life. I strive for simplicity in the relationships I build.

There is so much more life to live outside the confines we create and accept. I have never been the “run of the mill person”. I am driven to create opportunities. I am uncompromising with my passion for life. Not blinded by possession or “accomplishments”. And I still see success as vulgarly defined. I only answer challenges that are liberating – challenges that fuels my evolution.

I had the privilege of growing on an Volcanic archipelago which meant mountains to climb, waterfalls to discover, black sand and white sand beaches and a river that runs hot and cold water. My ancestry is a rich mix of Africans, Caribs and the Garifuna people that are result of that fusion. Becoming a father has grounded in the true sense of the word. Everything I do impact his life and his future so I am more careful of my choice and decisions.
I was more the spontaneous traveler with only a backpack, sleeping in airports, waking up in parks and hitching rides to get back home. I still typically only carry a backpack and still have great adventure- trodding lightly.

I would like to meet a woman who is willing to challenge me- yet not be a rival. She should live a healthy active life- understand the importance physical excise. Intelligent, culturally diverse and emotionally mature- yet young at heart- playful, with a great sense of humor. A woman who is deciding her own path- and comfortable with who she is.
What I’m doing with my life
I run a technology start-up. Our projects are creative, fun and always geared towards impacting life in a positive way. Our team live and work on 5 continents and throughout the Caribbean. The cultural exchanges are absolutely a kick to my days. The time zones mean I am sometimes up at odd hours. It also means when I travel I am not a tourist. I am usually in a different countries participating its social and cultural life.
My Journey has been far from easy. I have lived the harshness of NYC streets and thrived. Now I consistently pay it forward. I volunteering at a non profit that teaching inner city kids how to play soccer.
Staying healthy- which means I workout daily, play soccer regularly, careful of what I put in my body.
My bike take me around the boroughs.
I’m really good at
At being me and not judging you for who you are.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I gravitate towards non-fiction. works from Gabor Mate, Malcolm Gladwell, James Baldwin, Howard Zinn, Eric Williams, Mansfred Maxnief- book that opens my mind's eyes and keeps they ajar

Music Music Music- what it life with out music? My Music collection is vast and covers all corners of the world. Reggae however is a constant.

I get around a lot, and when I indulge in the food of the region I am in. Food and its preparation says a lot. Forget the critics, food is personal.
The six things I could never do without
I don't need things. that said, I would like to always have:
I space to cook
soccer
Music
a great mattress
Laughter
Bike
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make a positive difference.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
if you are confident. emotionally mature and intelligent. And you have a great sense of humor!