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carlajobear

52 / F / straight / Single

Richmond, Virginia

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I am flirty, sensuous, and ready.

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My Self-Summary

Hi, It is very nice of you to read my profile. I live alone in Chesterfield Cty. I love the outdoors, so if you happen to like tent camping that is a great big plus. I like most kinds of music, (not rap). I like to go out, but can be just a happy being at home with that someone special. I love to spoil my special someone and miss that very much.

What I’m doing with my life

I work full time as a Branch Administrator for a Crane Comany. I love volunteer work. Have been a Scout leader for the past 23 years. Would love to meet someone that could show me other things that life has to offer.

The first things people usually notice about me

Most people tell me the first they notice about me is my eyes.
They are dark brown and I have dark brown hair.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love to read mystery or criminal books.
I love going to outdoor concerts.
I like most any kind of foods.

The six things I could never do without

The six things I could never do without:
1) my three grown kids
2) my five wonderful grandkids
3) my cell phone
4) being able to work
5) being able to drive
6) my best friend and her family

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future. I want to meet someone that I can become friends with and eventually become a lot more than friends. My desire is to be married again and be able to share all that life has to offer.

On a typical Friday night I am

Usually sitting home watching TV. But wishing I was out with that special someone.

You should message me if

you are looking for friends first. You are evetually looking for long term.
If you are not looking for just sex. (not that I don't want sex)

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