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39 • F • Washington, DC
I’m looking for
- Guys who like girls
- Ages 38–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Today – 5:52am
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body Type
- Christianity, but not too serious about it
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Politics / Government
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t want kids
- Dislikes cats
- English, Spanish (Poorly)
I trained to be a poet, teacher, social scientist and nonprofit manager. I have a day job that is none of those vocations but combines little pieces of all four in ways that challenge and fulfill me most of the time.
I write a blog about the intersection of physical and emotional health. My three-part philosophy is: 1) Fear and shame are terrible motivators. 2) Honesty and emotional risk are the tools for overcoming fear and shame. 3) Love is the most powerful motivator of all.
The match questions: I answered most of them five years ago in the months before and after my divorce, and I think I've evolved a bit since then. Some of the edges are softer. Also, this isn't private, but it's worth saying...although I've never had a strong desire to have children, I am fine with dating someone who already has them.
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