First things first, I am married. Ours is a polyamorous marriage. This is not in fact an elaborate term for cheating. It does mean that my lovely bride and I both date other people, and we communicate extensively about it. If you and I become involved, you will eventually meet her. Just as she and I communicate about everything, it would be really neat if you were into that too. I know that some folks prefer to play their cards close to their chest, but those are not our house rules. Part of the reason we are polyamorous is that we honor the fact that love should be explored when it shows up. Love comes in many forms, but I am not really looking for the quick hookup form.
I am bilingual, and i have so far lived on three continents.