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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Hispanic / Latin
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hello. Welcome to my little corner of the dating internet. I am glad that it caught your attention. Please come on in, kick your shoes off, and let's get to know each other a bit.

First things first, I am married. Ours is a polyamorous marriage. This is not in fact an elaborate term for cheating. It does mean that my lovely bride and I both date other people, and we communicate extensively about it. If you and I become involved, you will eventually meet her. Just as she and I communicate about everything, it would be really neat if you were into that too. I know that some folks prefer to play their cards close to their chest, but those are not our house rules. Part of the reason we are polyamorous is that we honor the fact that love should be explored when it shows up. Love comes in many forms, but I am not really looking for the quick hookup form.

I am bilingual, and i have so far lived on three continents.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am always up to something creative. I do yoga as often as I can, although my practice is more gentle than intense. I am learning to play the clarinet. I love going for long walks. I am raising my son and growing in my marriage. Life is good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
drawing, thinking, rambling on and on, walking, kissing, laughing,
listening, expressing myself, punning,kissing, cooking, drumming
The first things people usually notice about me
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i don't know-- my laugh? my eyes? my beard? you tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Well, I don't have Walt Whitman's flair for making poetry out of lists. So I will just list threes:

Books: The Prophet, Be Here Now, A wizard of Earthsea

Movies: The Godfather, Annie Hall, Star Wars

Music: Willie Nelson, Widespread Panic, Louis Armstrong
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, art, love, connections, new things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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umm, not much. Not online anyhow ;-) let's chat, and we'll see what fun things I will admit to.

Alright. I guess its only fair to mention this. I am a 420 positive dude.
You should message me if
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you are interested in doing so, and you are not looking for a primary monogamous relationship.

If you just want to chat.

Or if you think I am a sexy beast. This is a dating site ;-)