**** my dance card is pretty full these days, so i am not looking for new romantic connections! i am always, however, looking for new friends, so if you want to have a fun summer adventure, i am always looking for buddies to go see weird theatre, queer performance art, experimental dance, or live music in small venues (bluegrass anyone??). My expectations of friends are pretty similar to those i have for partners/dates, so please give a read to this if you wanna hang out. <3
i tend to be into weirdos and queers of all genders, but since we live in a heteropatriarchy, straight cis guys will have to try pretty hard and be extremely awesome to get my attention. I pretty much promise to ignore your message unless you give me pretty clear indications that you a) read my profile b) share my values c) have something awesome to offer (your cock summarily does not count- lots of people have those and i can buy as many as i want from my local haberdashery)
these days i feel most excited about hanging out with perverts/leatherfolk/kinky queers. being buds sounds great, and maybe play if we are into similar stuff. yes, i am on that other site, but i only make connections with folks i actually know.
i'm a niche market, not a crowdpleaser. i like to be fished with a hook, not a net. i have high expectations around communication, consent, boundaries, respect, and care. i reciprocate those as well. I'm really fucking earnest. i'm a very picky slut. if you have questions about what that means to me, ask them.