i mostly use okc to make new friends, but am not opposed to being asked out on dates. i am always looking for buddies to go see weird theatre, queer performance art, experimental dance, or live music in small venues (bluegrass anyone??).
i tend to be into weirdos and queers of all genders, but since we live in a white supremacist heteropatriarchy, straight cisguys will have to try pretty hard or be extremely awesome to get my attention. I pretty much promise to ignore your message unless you give me pretty clear indications that you a) read my profile b) share some of my values c) have something awesome to offer (your cock summarily does not count- lots of people have those)
these days i feel most excited about hanging out with perverts/leatherfolk/kinky queers. being buds sounds great, and maybe play if we are into similar stuff.
i'm a niche market, not a crowdpleaser. i have high expectations around communication, consent, boundaries, respect, and care. i reciprocate those as well. I'm really fucking earnest. i self-ID as a slut, and am also super selective about who i sleep with. if you have questions about what that means to me, ask them.