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56 • M • Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 38–56
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Sep 12
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
- Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Politics / Government
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Has a kid
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
Learning how to love, and getting better and better at it -- better at loving the people in my life.
Understanding myself better, deepening my understanding of life.
Appreciating the little things.
Plotting my next adventure.
Finding ways to be of service that fit with my time and capacities.
Feeling less egotistical, more ephemeral.
In movies, I gravitate toward foreign films, independent films, small films. Recently saw "Her" and "The Grand Budapest Hotel" -- as it happens, films by two of my favorite directors these days.
I like most kinds of music. Lately I've been listening to Bastille, Fun, Death Cab for Cutie...
I like Thai food, Mexican, sushi... mostly Asian vegetarian dishes. I don't eat meat, though it's delicious. I suppose I'm a pescatarian -- I eat salmon a couple of times a month -- and try to buy local and organically grown foods whenever I can.
my Buddhist practice
being in nature
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