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carmelgt1

43 / F / straight / Single

Sydney, Australia

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
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New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism
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Education
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Artistic / Musical / Writer
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Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am naturally curious, smart, and fun to have around.

My Self-Summary

I guess I'm the kind of person who is in love with life and intent on making the most of it.I'm very happy with my life - its full and interesting.I would love to meet that elusive "best friend" as that is the one thing that is missing for me. Curiousity and broad interests lead me to try many things - Somethings that I have given more attention to than others are Art ( enjoy going to openings) Design - my career and passion, music - tastes wide and varied.
I should also include being with and enjoying others.
I have a lot of freedom in life which I'm grateful for - not always perfect at getting the work life balance right but believe in it in theory.
Argh this is starting to sound so earnest - Where's my publicist!

What I’m doing with my life

Im happy with my life - it's full, interesting and moving in the right direction. Its a cliche but it would be wonderful to meet someone who lights my fire both mentally and physically to share it with.

Running my business, part-time teaching and kind of enjoying it - despite what they say teenagers can be alot of fun and quite inspirational.
Planning my next holiday, fun time or adventure.
keeping my mind and body together.
I love to ski - and generally like to lead an active life.

I’m really good at

making people feel comfortable.
creating and thinking up great ideas.
Parties for two.

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably making a quick judgment and getting it wrong -

I would like them to notice my friendly "I come in peace" attitude

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

really broad from classical to dance music of all the genres i'm less drawn to the blues.
some current favourites - The Gossip, remixes of Stevie Wonder and Khaka Khan, Lucinda Williams and Shelby Lynn.
Movies by the Cohen brothers, Pedro Almadovar.

The six things I could never do without

Not in any order:

Friends
Exercise
Music and Art
The best of human nature - not the man band
Learning
frivolous good times

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to do things better
Beauty - trees, birds, people, architecture, art
What to cook for dinner

On a typical Friday night I am

Its never the same - could be staying in or out for dinner/ drinks

You should message me if

You think I sound like a bit of alright - no I mean appealing , attractive and would love to get to know me - oh yeah and you live in the same country.