I'm currently living in newark nj. I'm going to graduate school and graduating in May 2016 with an mba. I work at one of the corporate headquarters for a global firm in financial services. I own a multi-family building in newark and seek more entrprenuerial adventures. I'm very light hearted and love animals. I currently have 4 cats that I rescued. They are a handful at times but they are worth every once of energy they require. I can say that for every living being on this earth. my work drive seems contrary to my belief in taking care of things that are less fortunate. These are the things that make me want to thrive. I have more of a difficult time with people who can't see a bigger picture and understand that there are many things in life that need help.
What I’m doing with my life
finding ways to better myself and also appreciate the wonderful life that I've been so fortunate to live. I don't have much patience for excuses and people that take advantage of anything.
I’m really good at
leading people. Smooth realistic talking. I manage a lot of people and I hear every angle so I am empathic but if you are not bringing it you will know in a subtle way. That is my work life. I am more forgiving in a relationship but the reality is the same. I'm a people manager. I often manage expectations and am very good at making that work.
The first things people usually notice about me
honesty. I'm extremely funny and witty. I most likely will offend you with thoughts that escape my brain and exit my mouth in the form of words.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Recently read: On the Brink, Freefall, Raw food diets.
Recent movies: Diving bell and the butterfly, Dragon tattoo lady
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I take what I need to think about in different time parameters. I have to solve a lot of problems that are immediate and affect the future so I have to think in many different ways.
On a typical Friday night I am
not any one place in particular
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not all that private except about finances.
You should message me if
You should NOT message me if you are a straight, clueless, predatory man. Which means NO MESSAGES from MEN are welcome!!!! You should not message me if you are a dumb ass straight girl that is especially in a relationship with a man and are doing the footwork of finding another lady for your man. Ladies this will not give you a better chance of keeping him. Lastly, no bisexuals, they are the worst.
You should message me if you are a REAL gay/lesbian woman. No fakes welcome. You want to me to be a part of your family and you a part of mine.You are serious about a relationship and care about who you are . I'll say I'm really not into drama and definitely don't care about any of your ex girlfriends that you still pine over. I know who I am and what i want.