I like strong women, empathy, generosity, reciprocity, a belief that you can create positive change in the world and a willingness to try. Bicyclists, creative people, and people who grok evolutionary psychology win big bonus points.
I have owned a hippy store, gotten a patent, sung with a choir at Carnegie Hall multiple times, organized the creation of a neighborhood park I helped design, acted, dropped out of university, despite dropping out presented papers at academic conferences, and worked lots of undesirable jobs. If you have to have a guy with a good stable career job, sorry not it.
Divorced. Still friends. No kids.