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47 London, Ontario, CA Man


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  • Ages 18–46
  • Located anywhere
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My Details

Last Online
Jun 11
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Dropped out of university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am married. Right now our relationship "is complicated" and we are trying to work things out. She is into poly, and I am not so much into that....right now I am in Tucson and she is in Canada. I have dual citizenship and intend to move back to Canada at some point. So right now I am looking for friends here.

I like: art deco, music that has an identifiable tune which also involves very little screaming, people who can actually debate like adults despite having their own view politely challenged, ideas you did not get from some expert somewhere, rational thought, empathy, a belief that you can create positive change in the world and a willingness to try, cats, singing, dancing, acting, (and seeing others do those things well), impressionist paintings, women who love to bicycle.

My life has not been a normal one. I have done classical singing (two national professional choir tours, sang with choirs multiple times at Carnegie Hall...), appeared on Sex and the City, worked as a bike messenger in NYC (wrote for the zine, raced in the alleycats), I play bicycle polo, I was in a crazy artists collective in NYC, I helped create and design a park here in Tucson, I owned a store on 4th Ave for a few years (Peace Works, I got 38 bike racks installed for the avenue while I had the store, yes I have a hippy side but I shower daily), I got a US patent (and lost money), I am an autodidact and presented this paper at an academic symposium and a conference ( and last month presented another paper at the APLS conference...but I have no Bachelors and have never taken any classes related to either paper. I just enjoy trying to solve interesting questions, and for me interesting means solving them can help make the world a better place to live. I am part of the evolutionary psychology community, bonus points if you appreciate the field.
What I’m doing with my life
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When I am not reading/thinking about evolution's role in war, corruption, virulence in parasites...I am training to drive a school bus and will soon be out there on the road with a load of hellions. We will see how that goes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, having fun at parties where I know no one, writing academic stuff, understanding densely written academic books. Spatial skills like riding rapidly between two moving vehicles with inches to spare. Having fun watching movies with no deeper meanings. Being extremely silly. I have worked for eight years at four different toy stores...I have an inner adult and an outer child much of the time.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am short and have curly hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a)Unto Others, anything by Barbara Kingsolver, Edward Abbey, or Shakespeare, early Peanuts cartoon books, Groo the Wanderer b)too many...I am a Screen Actors Guild member so I have seen a lot...ummm, Eternal Sunshine is the best recent one and The Valley from France in like 1971 is the best one few of you are likely to have seen. The best recent, or even not recent, documetary/comedy that NO ONE here seems to have seen is The Yes Men. Yes, political action combined with three foot gold inflatable phalluses at academic conferences! And they take it seriously! And it all really happened! I laughed so hard I was feeling faint from lack of oxygen, could not inhale. Plus, one of the guys is an old friend of mine and the one male that I ever had any sexual attraction to. c)Boheme, the Who, Pretenders, Coasters, Seeds, Tchaikovsky, Richard and the Young Lions, Pete Seeger, Sweet Honey, Mutabaruka, Simon and Garfunkel, lots of other really obscure stuff. I promise you will like it and a lot of it is danceable. d)OK, I am a vegetarian who is allergic to SOY, and corn also. My choices are few. I do make some great home-made ice cream though. Most who try it swear it is the best they have ever had.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have done without pretty much everything except clothes at some point in my life. Clothes and a bicycle and a toothbrush...that is the whole list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How our evolved psychology predisposes us to going as a group and killing members of other groups, and feeling good about it. How to stop that from happening.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Debating with professors online, listening to music, going to live theatre or music, whatever sounds fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Past girlfriends have called me "naked boy" because I like to not wear a lot of clothes at home...hey, it is Tucson and the old house stays pretty hot in the summer.
You should message me if
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You want to be my lackey and help me to take over the world. You would love a bicycling partner. You dig good music shows. You like nerds.