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44 Missoula, MT Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Dec 22, 2014
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I have a friend who says of me, "You're sweet but you have a definite edge." I'd say she knows me fairly well. I love people, I enjoy making friends, I completely dig my family (immediate and extended) and believe our relationships are our most important legacy.

Nearly every day begins with a workout. I love to hike, run, and engage in high-intensity interval training. (My dog loves these things, too.) My bicycle, however, remains untouched in the garage. Riding it is an exercise in drudgery, so I avoid it. I have an extensive home gym, and did personal training and group exercise instruction for years, so yes, I do know what I'm doing. Oh, and if I'm not working out, I'm dancing. Anybody can dance - just shake what your mama gave you.

I love food, although I don't enjoy cooking. (I can do it, and I'm not a BAD cook, but am much happier if someone else does it. I'll happily do the dishes.) I love to read, although usually only do it on the weekends and in the evening, since sitting for extended periods of time is not something I enjoy. Some of my favorite authors are Lois McMaster Bujold, Robert A. Heinlein (pre-stroke), Dean R. Koontz, Orson Scott Card, and Nora Roberts. (What can I say. I happen to LIKE bubble gum.)

I do all the yard work at my house and enjoy having a garden. I wouldn't say I necessarily have a green thumb, but what I plant generally grows, so I can't complain. I also drive a mean Craftsman mower.

And if you're wondering what I'm looking for with my OK Cupid account, please check out the "I'm looking for" section. I'm not being coy. That really is what I'm looking for.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm living it. That's what it's there for!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Relationships. And fitness.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me, and we'll both know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Cordelia's Honor (Bujold), Enchantment (Card)
Movies: Ghost Rider (the first one), The Holiday, Avatar, Serenity
TV Shows: Mad Men, Firefly, Downton Abbey, Warehouse 13
Music: AWOLnation, Gotye, Christina Perri
Food: Mexican (bring on the spicy, baby), Indian, salads

The lists above are severely abridged for the sake of space and the reader's sanity.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Running shoes, lotion, sunshine, sex, my sisters/husband/son (guess that classifies as a collective "family"), and under eye concealer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Exercise. Cleaning. Life and people.

Exercise: I wake up at about 4:30 am to get a workout in before I leave for work. I write my workout for the next day in the evening, after dinner, or if it isn't too complex, I at least plan it in my head. As I fall asleep, I'm often running through the workout in my mind.

Cleaning: I organize space in my head. If my closet is bugging me, I take a mental inventory of what's there, pitch this, keep that, organize by color, and when I have time, I do the Captain Jean Luc Picard thing and make it so. (Technically, that was his imperative to Will Riker, but I digress.) This was, in fact, a recent project, and I Roy G. Biv'd the crap out of my closet. Pure bliss!

Life and people: Both are wonderful! I love the randomness of life and humanity. I love the complexity of both, and especially try to figure out why people are the way they are. To know someone is to love someone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading - I'm such an animal!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If it's private, I'm not willing to admit it here...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interested in making friends, having a workout or hiking buddy, enjoy getting together and laughing, or just need someone to hang out with. P.S. I come firmly attached to a husband.