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73 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 60-80
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 9
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have healthy energy, am enthusiastic about life, eager to be involved, but no longer ambitious. I am intellectually and spiritually curious. I know where I was in previous lives, and through that exploration have gained some understanding of my present life. I love music and treasure silence. I meditate almost every day. An African proverb sums up my view about life: "When death finds you, may it find you alive."

As for my match, rather than create a list of desirable characteristics, I'll say that the next man in my life will keep me grounded and keep me laughing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an independent contractor. Sources of work are recruitment, teaching, editing. I have worked a lot with children (theatre, singing), and find them to be the antidote to cynicism. I'm involved in learning about mind/body therapies, which have helped me enormously in my life, and which I wish to share with parents and educators. I enjoy my work and plan to die in the saddle (unless God has something else in mind).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversing with people whose take on life I find interesting, making music (I sing and play piano), working with children.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My enthusiasm, my energy, and my positive outlook.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Recent and favorite reading: Henry James (Portrait of a Lady), Haruki Murakami , Joan Didion, Faulkner, Jane Austen, Garcia Marquez, Normal Mailer, Edith Wharton, Thomas Merton and Thich Nhat Hanh.
I don't see many movies, but favorites have been "Il postino," "Babette's feast," "What the bleep do we know?" and recently saw "Marigold Hotel." I never miss "Prairie Home Companion" when I can help it, and I usually hear "The Writer's Almanac" daily.
Music tastes are wide-ranging, in fact anything that's good. Not fond, however, of rock or heavy metal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, music, animals (cats or dogs), children, books, trees, good company.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of the world, its children, education, music, the evolving consciousness of human beings, past lives (I know where I was in several).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a yoga class, followed by a good dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will admit this when I'm ready to admit it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a gentleman, enjoy cooking and dinner conversation, and believe I have something unique to offer you. I find that a man's answers to the OKcupid questions help me know whether we might be compatible. You need not answer as many as I did (I rather enjoy the activity), but you should provide more than a few pages. It will save time and energy for both of us. And anyway, don't you enjoy sharing information about yourself?