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carpediem43swm

43 / M / Straight / Single

Brisbane, California

His Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a fun-loving down-to-earth guy looking to share some laughs and simple pleasures. I like camping, hiking, frisbee, traveling, beautiful views, swimming in a lake, lazy kayaking, sunsets, cooking, eating, dancing, hard puzzles, and tart orange marmalade. /0po----------------p (one of my cats just added that last bit).
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my wonderful 2nd grade boy, working hard at a job I love, spending quality time with treasured friends. Oh and I have 3 cats ... not sure how that happened. And 3 frogs which we've raised from itty bitty tadpoles. Sometimes the big one croaks and it always startles me. Last night two of them got together. But I digress.
I’m really good at
Playing, engaging, listening, taking it all in. Also cooking, especially grilling, sauteeing, and frying. I can balance standing up on a log while floating down a river. I've always been uncannily talented at racquet sports. I'm also good at madlibs, building with legos, abstract math, physics intuition, and word games. I'm pretty good at spelling and editing. I'm not so good at getting to bed on time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no flippin' idea - maybe you can tell me when we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anything by Neal Stephenson or Jack Vance or Larry Niven, Life of Pi, 1984, Stranger in a Strange Land

Movies: Good sci-fi (The Matrix, Terminator) or comedy (Meet the Parents, Oh Brother Where Art Thou); I'll watch a drama together with you if you like.

Shows: Monk, Dexter, Weeds (got pretty weird though), The Daily Show, New Girl, and (gulp) Glee (in moderate doses)

Music: Love and Rockets, Jane's Addiction, Supreme Beings of Leisure, Tom Petty, Cocteau Twins, Sneaker Pimps, Smashing Pumpkins, Estelle, Stone Temple Pilots, and ... can't believe I'm admitting this ... Katy Perry.

Food: sushi, good home cookin'; actually pretty much all cuisines. Anything except bell peppers - weird I know.
The six things I could never do without
Love, friendship, games, books, intellectual stimulation, love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Healthy living, supporting my kiddo in becoming a wonderful person, meeting new people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Don't know, I haven't had a typical Friday night in awhile. I'd appreciate suggestions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I might be the most ticklish person ever. You don't actually even have to touch me, you just have to look like you're going to tickle me and it tickles me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You dig honesty and good communication
You like passionate (but not sloppy) kissing
You're sweet on the outside, spicy on the inside
You don't mind the occasional bad pun (I'm working on controlling myself)
You can deal with the schedule of a gainfully employed single dad
You are playful and easy going
You have a naughty streak
You are ok with being friends first