i am a real woman... strong in what i want and believe, and not afraid to take it. i prefer to spend my time with people that know who they are and what they want, and are willing to put effort into their relationships. i love music and movies. i am always looking to fill my life with passion in every way. I am in the process of figuring out how to make transistions in my life, and doing things i have wanted to do forever. like getting tattoos, or piercings... or meeting new people and stepping out of the box a little. i am highly focused on becoming the real me right now. which means the gym at least 5 days a week, support groups, and so on. i am hoping that soon things will change and i won't feel the need for constant group support, though it is really quite cool to hear different people's stories and how they make it through the same situations in different ways. i have learned more in the last 3 months than i have in the last 17 years. really right now, i just want to get out and have fun without a cloud hanging over my head!!!!

going through a huge transitional period and trying to find myself... wanna help :) working, being a mom to two teenage boys and trying to find time for myself somewhere in between.

i have been told i have gifts in singing, and making people feel comfortable. i am a very open and caring person, though sometimes to a fault. if i do say so myself i am a great cook, i love to entertain and try to come up with new impressive recipes.

my tattoos

books, anything with a good story, the kind that swallows you and takes you away for a while. i just finished the entire series of 6 feet under in 7 weeks. amazing!!! flight of the conchords is great for a laugh and getting songs stuck in your head... come on, who doesn't wanna wear their business socks??? sadly the idols have sucked me in. music is so varied. anything from harry connick jr to alexis on fire. mainly depends on what my boys are listening to. the only thing i cannot stomach is country. food, i love to experiment with flavors, textures, colors. it is all about the flavor.

love, family, friends, my cell, coffee, the gym

how i came to be in the place i am in right now. where my life turned the corner. though i know that any changes being made right now are only for the better, it still consumes most of my thoughts... and of course, where can i find that elusive pool boy!!!!

depending on which week it is... spending the evening with my boys, or out with friends re learning how to have fun.

you will have to ask...

something in my profile interested you. you would like to talk about body art. you are going through some huge transition and would like someone to talk to openly and honestly about it. you are that elusive pool boy ;)