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I am somewhat of an extrovert with a gift for putting others at
ease; but also value my inner quiet self, and am a good listener.
I'm athletic, and love sports of all kinds, music, nature, the
mountains and the beach. After 34 years in education I retired in
June 2011 and enjoy working now in my grandsons' classrooms. (Not
my test scores, not my parent conferences, not my report cards!) I
still want to make a difference with kids and help them develop a
positive self image. I'm lucky to have both my grown children
return to Santa Barbara as adults; and my two grandsons are opening
my heart to laughter and fun in a way that softens and touches me.
Now I am ready to develop a relationship with a man who shares some
of my passion and zest for living and for trying new things, and
cares about having an inner life as well.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've spent 34 years teaching and some years as an organizational
consultant. I stopped teaching summer school years ago so I could
do "Nana Camp"- riding bikes, swimming, etc..with Jesse and Sam,
currently 11 and 8. I was raised Catholic, but I switched to being
Episcopalian after my divorce, and go to a liberal Episcopalian
church in town. It's a great place to be, and I am pretty involved
there. "Walking the walk" of concern with social justice, helping
others, improving education, nurturing the environment, etc. Living
here for 40 years has given me lots of wonderful friends, some of
whom have already died of cancer which has made me more grateful
for every day, and more grateful for my excellent health.
I’m really good at
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being a good friend and showing up. I am in good physical shape and
love most sports. I swim every morning and have for years. I love
playing tennis from time to time, and I love bike riding, hiking
and being in the mountains, especially the redwoods, or at the
ocean. I love good books and read everything from good fiction to
philosophy. People really appreciate my integrity, competence and
fidelity. When my children had trouble with the economic downturn
in Santa Barbara, I gave them my place to live in with my
grandchildren for 14 months; There is a saying "a mother is as
happy as her saddest child." and I believe that to be true. I moved
back as planned and part of my retirement new life was getting new
furniture and throwing lots away! I also got to go to the 2011 US
Open Tennis tournament in NY for a week. Some years ago I went to
Wimbledon, which was so fabulous.. but a teacher can't leave the
first week of September to go to New York for tennis! Both
tournaments were great fun! Living a block from the beach allows me
to walk or bike along a lovely and peaceful view of nature.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are that I have good energy and vivid blue eyes. My smile is
engaging and I'm easy to connect with. People notice that I put
them at ease quickly, and show an interest in them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I cherish reading, and often read while watching sports on "mute".!
I like poetry by many different authors, as well as novels by Anne
Tyler, Sue Grafton and John Grisham. Mary Oliver and Robert Frost
are probably my favorite poets. Of course, teaching
elementary/middle school students, I like all the Harry Potter
movies and books., and just finished helping a 5th grade class read
Tom Sawyer-- it is still great! I'm looking forward to more time
for live music at the SB Bowl or Soho, and love classical music
too. I now usher at the Granada a couple of times a month, and love
being exposed to concerts I would not normally purchase a ticket
for. It's great to be "expanded" through new venues. Food wise I'm
a healthy eater with a weakness for good chips and salsa, vanilla
yogurt, icing, and a good glass of wine. My favorite dinner is
fresh salmon and Trader Joe's bag of spinach salad.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
would be my children and grandchildren, closest friends, a
community where I get connected and nourished by wonderful friends,
a swimming pool to swim in, and living in a healthy environment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
lately- how to adjust to retirement, what new possibilities might
come in the future, new relationships, and new ways of
contributing. I'm looking for ways to laugh, play, travel and be
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
delighted to be with friends for a movie, music/concert, glass of
wine, go dancing, and kick back.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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At a young age I internalized "It is better to give than receive",
so I have a harder time accepting and taking in others' care of me.
I'm learning I don't have to "earn" all that.
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