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carterd04

25 New York, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:17pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English, French, Spanish

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
art enthusiast. language learner. former classically trained cellist. ESFP. (but sometimes closer to ENFP). ♈. a dreamy idealist. mexican hot sauce connoisseur. sassy pants.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to set myself up to live like Ina Garten. and generally being an absurd person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being honest (usually when it's better to just be quiet). listening to peoples problems and giving great advice.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I throw caution to the wind and hope for the best. usually it works. sometimes it's a disaster.

(but usually my hair or green eyes.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books:
this side of paradise-fitzgerald,
extremely loud and incredibly close-foer, fantastic mr. fox-dahl,
interpreter of maladies-lahiri,
the road-mccarthy,
suite française-némirovsky,
the golden compass series-pullman,
game of thrones-Martin
me talk pretty one day-sedaris
maus-spiegelman
harry potter series (of course)

movie:
Midnight in Paris or Pans Labyrinth

food:
sushi and mexican are my favorites. But
I'm adventurous with anything at least once.

shows:
Grey's Anatomy
Weeds
American Horror Story
The Following
Game of Thrones (& everything Jon Snow)
House of Cards.
Brothers & Sisters
Orange Is The New Black.
Parks and Rec
United States of Tara.

music:
Katy Perry, The Naked and Famous, Vampire Weekend, Robyn, Two Door Cinema Club, The Lumineers, Asaf Avidan, Gregory Alan Isakov, Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, RAC, The XX, Neon Indian, Lana del Rey, Banks, Walk The Moon, Mr Little Jeans, James Blake, Passion Pit, Haim, CHVRCHES, Mikky Ekko, Bon Iver, Mumford, William Fitzsimmons, Blind Pilot, The Teenagers, Broken Social Scene, Crystal Castles, Sky Ferriera, Charlie XCX and 1D.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in no particular order:

1. the ocean
2. kittens
3. good shoes
4. hot sauce
5. alcohol (whiskey/beer/wine)
6. iced americanos
(7. GOOD Mexican food)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why I'm not napping. how perfect Sally Field is. & how big outer space really is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
avoiding everyone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have the surprised kitty YouTube video bookmarked.

I don't really like dogs.
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