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Not sure about this new Quickmatch |
So, if I understand this correctly, if I rate someone 4-5 on one of
the criteria, they'll get a message saying, "Someone liked your
!"
I don't mind telling someone, "I like your personality, but I don't feel sexually attracted to you." But I don't really want to tell someone, "I find you attractive, but to be honest, you seem like something of a bitch."
So, I if I don't really like what of someone's personality comes through in their profile, I tend to vote their looks down as well or just answer "can't tell".
I'd rather set an option which says, "Don't notify someone if I only liked their looks."
(And, I guess someone cruising for random sex might want the opposite option - to notify if you like the looks, but not if you "just want to be friends"!)
I don't mind telling someone, "I like your personality, but I don't feel sexually attracted to you." But I don't really want to tell someone, "I find you attractive, but to be honest, you seem like something of a bitch."
So, I if I don't really like what of someone's personality comes through in their profile, I tend to vote their looks down as well or just answer "can't tell".
I'd rather set an option which says, "Don't notify someone if I only liked their looks."
(And, I guess someone cruising for random sex might want the opposite option - to notify if you like the looks, but not if you "just want to be friends"!)
Seriously, what is it with you and your breasts? |
So I've been QuickMatching a bit recently, and the single most
common thing I've read is:
"The first thing people notice about me is my breasts!"
Sorry, hon, the first thing I notice about you is your originality.
(And then maybe your breasts. Well, only because you're so intent on bragging about them! I've got to check, right?)
"The first thing people notice about me is my breasts!"
Sorry, hon, the first thing I notice about you is your originality.
(And then maybe your breasts. Well, only because you're so intent on bragging about them! I've got to check, right?)
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If you're in a relationship you expect will last for the rest of your life, is it important to you that it be the most satisfying sexual relationship you have ever had?Erm, no? That's not how poly works. ;)
- Yes
- No
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Imagine you are in a committed relationship, but have the opportunity to go on a one month long trip to a distant country. The trip would be great for your career, but you must go alone. Would you seriously consider staying if your partner asked to?I really wouldn't expect my partner to ask me to. I don't want to be so attached at the hip that I can't go away for a month!
- Yes.
- No.
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Would you rather...Erm, what happened to "all of the above"?
- be tied up during sex
- do the tying
- avoid bondage all together
Back to OKC |
It's been a little while since I was last here. I removed my old
account, because it didn't really apply any more.
Anyway, interesting to see how OKC has changed since then, and glad to see it's still so poly-friendly. :)
LJ=meihua, where the rest of my life happens. ^.^
Anyway, interesting to see how OKC has changed since then, and glad to see it's still so poly-friendly. :)
LJ=meihua, where the rest of my life happens. ^.^
