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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–49
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:28pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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I am a liberal, logically and mathematically minded engineer who loves his dog like a child, is a bit of a beer snob, and likes to run, read, and occasionally fits in some video gaming. I grew up in a small town in the midwest and am a child of the internet so I know a little bit about just about anything and love to talk about and learn new things.

I am in an open/poly marriage with boobookittyfudge. The definition of this varies from couple to couple and I would be happy to go into further detail on how I define it. I am also a member of NSPP.

I'm looking for someone I can connect with but still understanding the limits that an open marriage entails. The most fulfilling relationships I've had in the past have been ones that I've fallen into and let grow naturally.
What I’m doing with my life
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I run way too much and life is pretty much consumed by my running schedule and work. When I do have some free time I like to grab a beer with friends or relax at home. I am trying to get into homebrewing and seem to learn more and more as I go. I sneak time to play video games every once in a while as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastination and acting like I'm busy when I'm not (a surprisingly tough skill).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a unique name that is pretty memorable. I can easily be googled.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I usually like to read science fiction or fantasy. My current obsession rereading Frank Herbert's Dune series. I'm also finishing More Than Two and learning a lot.

I have a secret love for bloody horror movies, the redder the better. Although I do have a limit on the amount of cheese I can handle.

I need some tips on new shows to watch as I'm either done with all my series or waiting for new seasons to start.

For music I tend to go through obsessions with a band, listen to everything they have until I get sick of them. Current bands are Sufjan Stevens, Destroyer, Junip, Joanna Newsom, Listener, Beirut, Dirty Projectors, Warpaint, Fever Ray, Kishi Bashi, Chelsea Wolfe, Built to Spill, Neutral Milk Motel, The Knife, Young Wonder, Purity Ring, CHVRCHES, and St. Vincent. I have a warm place in my heart for grunge bands from the 90's. I really want to get into a more local music scene as well.

As far as food goes I've been known as a garbage disposal. I like to try new things and usually gravitate toward something on the menu I've never had or is unique.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My wife
My dog
My running shoes
the number 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sometimes I think too much about the future and don't focus enough on the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with friends, napping, drinking a good beer, watching a local band.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am greatly intimidated by those well traveled.
You should message me if
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You understand or are curious about my situation and lifestyle choice. I would love to hear from others that think the same way as myself when it comes to nonmonogamy.

I am also looking for a running partner or someone to share my love of beer.