Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a liberal, logically and mathematically minded engineer who
loves his dog like a child, is a bit of a beer snob, and likes to
run, read, and occasionally fits in some video gaming. I grew up in
a small town in the midwest and am a child of the internet so I
know a little bit about just about anything and love to talk about
and learn new things.
I am in an open/poly marriage with boobookittyfudge
definition of this varies from couple to couple and I would be
happy to go into further detail on how I define it. I am also a
member of NSPP.
I'm looking for someone I can connect deeply with but still
understanding the limits that an open marriage entails.
What I’m doing with my life
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I run way too much and life is pretty much consumed by my running
schedule and work. When I do have some free time I like to grab a
beer with friends or relax at home. I am trying to get into
homebrewing and seem to learn more and more as I go. I sneak time
to play video games every once in a while as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastination and acting like I'm busy when I'm not (a
surprisingly tough skill).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a unique name that is pretty memorable. I can easily be
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I usually like to read science fiction or fantasy. My current
obsession rereading Frank Herbert's Dune series. I'm also finishing
More Than Two and learning a lot.
I have a secret love for bloody horror movies, the redder the
better. Although I do have a limit on the amount of cheese I can
I need some tips on new shows to watch as I'm either done with all
my series or waiting for new seasons to start.
For music I tend to go through obsessions with a band, listen to
everything they have until I get sick of them. Current bands are
Sufjan Stevens, Destroyer, Junip, Joanna Newsom, Listener, Beirut,
Dirty Projectors, Warpaint, Fever Ray, Kishi Bashi, Chelsea Wolfe,
Built to Spill, Neutral Milk Motel, The Knife, Young Wonder, Purity
Ring, CHVRCHES, and St. Vincent. I have a warm place in my heart
for grunge bands from the 90's. I really want to get into a more
local music scene as well.
As far as food goes I've been known as a garbage disposal. I like
to try new things and usually gravitate toward something on the
menu I've never had or is unique.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My running shoes
the number 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sometimes I think too much about the future and don't focus enough
on the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with friends, napping, drinking a good beer, watching
a local band.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am greatly intimidated by those well traveled. Maybe because I
wish I were.
You should message me if
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You understand or are curious about my situation and lifestyle
choice. I would love to hear from others that think the same way as
myself when it comes to nonmonogamy. Or if you just want to see if
we are compatible as friends, share some beers, talk.
I am also looking for a running partner or someone to share my love
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