Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a liberal, logically and mathematically minded engineer who
loves his dog like a child, is a bit of a beer snob, and likes to
run, read, and occasionally fits in some video gaming. I grew up in
a small town in the midwest and am a child of the internet so I
know a little bit about just about anything.
I am in an open/poly marriage with boobookittyfudge
definition of this varies from couple to couple and I would be
happy to go into further detail on how I define it. I am also a
member of NSPP
I have a strong and loving relationship with my wife and my
girlfriend so my focus tends to be on them. That said, I can't
define what I am currently looking for. I prefer to let
relationships evolve into whatever they will naturally turn into.
Whether that be something more casual or a deeper connection, it
really depends on the individual.
What I’m doing with my life
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I run way too much and life is pretty much consumed by my running
schedule and work. When I do have some free time I like to grab a
beer with friends or relax at home. I am trying to get into
homebrewing and seem to learn more and more as I go. I sneak time
to play video games every once in a while as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastination and acting like I'm busy when I'm not (a
surprisingly tough skill).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a unique name that is pretty memorable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I usually like to read science fiction or fantasy. My current
obsession rereading Frank Herbert's Dune series.
I have a secret love for bloody horror movies, the redder the
better. Although I do have a limit on the amount of cheese I can
The television shows I'm currently watching are 30 Rock, Parks and
Recreation, Community, Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Modern
Family, Walking Dead, Mad Men, Homeland. Also a not so secret love
for how shitty Lost Girl is.
For music I tend to go through obsessions with a band, listen to
everything they have until I get sick of them. Current bands are
Sufjan Stevens, Destroyer, Junip, Joanna Newsom, Listener, Beirut,
Dirty Projectors, Warpaint, Fever Ray, Kishi Bashi, Chelsea Wolfe,
Built to Spill, Neutral Milk Motel, The Knife, Young Wonder, Purity
Ring, CHVRCHES, and St. Vincent. I have a warm place in my heart
for grunge bands from the 90's. I really want to get into a more
local music scene as well.
As far as food goes I've been known as a garbage disposal. I like
to try new things and usually gravitate toward something on the
menu I've never had or is unique.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My running shoes
the number 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sometimes I think too much about the future and don't focus enough
on the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with friends, napping, drinking, watching a local
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am realizing I am greatly intimidated by those well traveled.
Maybe because I wish I were but am not.
You should message me if
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You understand or are curious about my situation and lifestyle
choice. I would love to hear from others that think the same way as
myself when it comes to nonmonogamy. Or if you just want to see if
we are compatible as friends, share some beers, talk. I'd prefer to
not spend a lot of time chatting before an in-person meetup.
I am also looking for a running partner. Someone who can push me as
much as I can push her.
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