Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a liberal, logically and mathematically minded engineer who
loves his dog like a child, is a bit of a beer snob, and likes to
run, read, and attend concerts of bands I feel too old to be an
audience member of.
I am in an open marriage with boobookittyfudge
definition of this varies from couple to couple and I would be
happy to go into further detail on how I define it.
I'm looking for someone I can connect with but still understanding
the limits that an open marriage entails. The most fulfilling
relationships I've had in the past have been ones that I've fallen
into and let grow naturally.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run way too much and life is pretty much consumed by my running
schedule and work. When I do have some free time I like to grab a
beer with friends or relax at home. I am trying to get into
homebrewing and seem to learn more and more as I go.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastination and acting like I'm busy when I'm not (a
surprisingly tough skill).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a unique name that is pretty memorable. I can easily be
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I usually like to read science fiction or fantasy. My current
obsession rereading Frank Herbert's Dune series. I just finished
Born to Run.
I have a secret love for bloody horror movies, the redder the
better. Although I do have a limit on the amount of cheese I can
I need some tips on new shows to watch as I'm either done with all
my series or waiting for new seasons to start.
For music I tend to go through obsessions with a band, listen to
everything they have until I get sick of them. Current bands are
Sufjan Stevens, Destroyer, Junip, Joanna Newsom, Listener, Beirut,
Dirty Projectors, Warpaint, Fever Ray, Hop Along, Chelsea Wolfe,
Built to Spill, Neutral Milk Motel, The Knife, Young Wonder, Purity
Ring, CHVRCHES, and St. Vincent. I have a warm place in my heart
for grunge bands from the 90's. I really want to get into a more
local music scene as well.
As far as food goes I've been known as a garbage disposal. I like
to try new things and usually gravitate toward something on the
menu I've never had or is unique.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My running shoes
the number 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sometimes I think too much about the future and don't focus enough
on the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with friends, napping, drinking a good beer, watching
a local band.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wish I could remove my Facebook account but I'm friends with too
much family and would be disowned.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You understand or are curious about my situation and lifestyle
choice. I would love to hear from others that think the same way as
myself when it comes to nonmonogamy.
Note: although not deal breaker, I probably won't be the first to
message you if your profile says you are looking for someone single
because obviously I'm not. If you are interested then pull the
trigger and take the plunge!
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