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37 Sacramento, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:23am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), C++ (Okay), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Half-world traveler in search of a soulmate and a really good cheese steak.

I mean, I'm not asking for much, but someone who laughs at my jokes would be a definite start. Oh, and hold the onions, please.

I would be funny if I ever got out of my own way. I'm sarcastic. I'm contradictory. I'm a musician, and a San Francisco Giants fan, but never at the same time.. Ever think about bringing a guitar to a baseball game? NOT A GOOD IDEA, not that I've ever tried.

I have a wonderful job that affords me the ability to travel, solve interesting problems, and meet interesting people.

I am trustworthy, extremely enigmatic, and fond of haikus :)

I score an INFP on the Meyers-Briggs scale. If that means anything at all.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently the CTO of a successful web agency. Planning my entrance in the education space to repair what is left of the public school system.

On weekends I double as a photographer. I've done a ton of landscapes and photographed several weddings.

In my spare time, I compose music, read a LOT, philosophize semi-coherently from an armchair, hike, bike, basically anything outdoors.

I've lived in midtown for over 6 years and just recently discovered the river. Summer weekends you'll find me there.

I've taught myself how to knit. Yes, I'm a guy knitter, and I love it. If others laugh about it, that's fine, too. I don't mind being the subject of a joke or two.

I'm also learning to appreciate cheeses NOT made from cow's milk. Bread definitely helps with that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love hiking, biking, anything in the outdoors!

I am just your garden variety renaissance man. I'm a creative thinker, an empathizer, a goof ball, and a terrific kisser (references and/or samples may be provided upon request, provided I'm given sufficient incentive -- and ONLY if you're low drama).

I'm also really good at losing baseball hats. And then finding them again after having bought a replacement. Sunglasses, too. As a result I have two pair of sunglasses with the same prescription, and for some reason I can always find one or the other (but their presence is mutually exclusive).

I can hold a tune as well.. Karaoke here I come.

I find it funny that OKCupid is asking me to write my profile in both English and French. Why? They can run it through Google translate as well as I can.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Almost everyone I've asked this about has said my eyes, and that I'm the smartest person in the room.

Oh, and for some reason this scenario keeps playing out at just about every cafe I've ever been to:

Person-At-Table-Next-To-Me: "You look like someone I can trust. Can I leave my stuff here and can you watch it for me?"

Me: "Is it going to do tricks?"

Person-At-Table-Next-To-Me: "Probably not."

Me: "Then it will be easy to watch."

I can't for-the-life of me figure out what that says about my character.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books.) Connie Willis is at the top of my list. I'm almost finished reading All Clear, part two of a historical science fiction novel about the London Blitz. Others on the list: Good Omens, anything by Christopher Moore, Neil Stephenson, David Eddings, Raymond Feist, She's not that Into you (guilty pleasure), DaVinci Code, the Harry Potter books, Good Omens (oh, did I mention this one? Yeah, it's there), and anything by Peter David. Currently getting more into non-fiction, which is about the only genre I've underserved.

Movies.) Interstate 60, High Fidelity, Almost Famous, American Beauty, Princess Bride, the Indiana Jones movies, Back to the Future (just the first one). I recently saw How to Train Your Dragon and am now adding that to the list.

Music.) The Lumineers, Postal Service, Hotel Costes, Zero 7, Massive Attack, Hooverphonic, Nick Warren, Paul Oakenfold, James LaVelle, John Mayer, The Cardigans, Tori Amos, Sarah McLachlan, Train, Zeppelin, the list goes on forever and a day.

Food.) Sushi tops the list, followed by Thai and Chinese. After years of taking umbrage to salad dressing, I've now found myself on the tail end of a change in taste buds, and am now a fan of Caesar salads.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sourdough Bread
My Nikon D7 100 and associated lenses.
Cats. Gotta have Cats (the animals, not the musical, though that's okay too, I s'pose).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I always have a song in my head. Not always the same one. It changes every 30 minutes or so.

1.) Whether or not I've got it right.
2.) The best use of a minor-seventh chord 3.
) The best way to irritate a Sacramento transplant
4.) Whether or not a "Save a goat, sacrifice a Christian" bumper sticker will piss off too many people to be worth putting on my car.
5.) Whether the above bumper sticker will irritate enough people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
People watching over coffee, armchair philosophy or a relaxing evening at home over a book. Occasionally commisserating with a Skein of Knitters.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I believe that Mochi Ice cream is both insidious and telepathic. Seriously. You try not eating it. It makes you. (I also have a tendency to overuse parenthesis)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are authentic with yourself, know what you want, and have a slightly-less-than-vague idea of how to get there.

If you want to know which song I have in my head right now.

Please also satisfy the following criteria:
1. You know what sarcasm is and how to use it. I'm a firm believer that there are folks out there who are born without the sarcasm gene. I find this absolutely tragic.

5. You do not have a photo of you on your profile shooting a rifle. Props to all you NRA'ers out there, it's just not my thing.

8. You don't list as the first thing you can't live without either "God" or "faith." Good on you for having religion in your life, but we probably won't get along.

6. You know how to upload photos of yourself. Seriously, in this day and age you should know how. There are umpteen tutorials and free software online to do this. Learn to internet.

2. You see yourself going places.

3. You think you can surprise me.

7. You realized before you read this last line that the numbers are out of order, and that there is no number four.