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20 La Jolla, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 20–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:24pm
5' 4" (1.63m)
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Russian (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some basic facts about me:

- Expat
- Part-time entrepreneur
- Full-time scholar
- Lifelong traveller
- Art junkie
- Interested in International Relations, diplomat wannabe.
- Speak two languages fluently, other five poorly :P
- Into water sports. Just started surfing :D
- Cat owner
- Nomad in heart
- Allergic to douchebags
- Sapiosexual

Places Iv lived: China -> New England -> Roma -> NYC -> DC -> Bali -> San Diego -> ?

Stream of consciousness:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Zeng Zi said, "Everyday I examine myself on three counts. In what I have undertaken on other's behalf, did I not do my best? In my dealings with friends, have I failed to be trustworthy in what I say? Have I failed to practise repeatedly what I have learned?"

Planning my next trip.. Europe? South America? Southeast Asia?

Just moved to San Diego from the east-coast, so don't know much people here. Trying to make new friends while exploring SD.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Learning languages and cultures.
- Animals are just found of me for no reasons, got attacked by monkeys multiple times especially.
- Stay hungry, stay foolish.
- Work hard, play harder.
- Bouncing around the globe constantly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Some people say it's my smile ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Musics: Right now obsessed with EDM.

Movies: Action, Horror; Science Fiction; Documentary; Comedy; anything with good plots.

Books: Haruki Murakami; Oscar Wild; Dan Brown; Vladimir Nabokov; Franz Kafka; Yu Hua; Mo Yan; history, art, philosophy books; etc. Books are necessary to me, hopefully you read as well. (if you read around 50 books every year, then it's a plus)

Food: I am down to try anything new :) I usually make Asian food on my own.

Shows: Blacklist; Girls; How I Met Your Mother; Game of Thrones; American Horror Stories; The Americans; House of Cards; Modern Family; etc.

*I like to explore museums and parks. Art is a crucial factor in my life. Favorite movement is Surrealism :) Definitely write to me if you are also an art collector/creator, or you have been to an off-broadway show called "Sleep No More" in NYC or London.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I just need one to survive
-My dreams
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-How to add value to this world by becoming a better and stronger person.
-"When Heaven is about to place a great responsibility on a great man, it always first frustrates his spirit and will, exhausts his muscles and bones, exposes him to starvation and poverty, harasses him by troubles and setbacks so as to stimulate his spirit, toughen his nature and enhance his abilities." -Mencius
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Anything you can think of ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't think I can live in a same city for more than 5 years.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are an intelligent gentleman who is looking for sincere and exciting adventures, just enjoy the present.

You have read my profile and can organize your thoughts together other than a simple "hi".

Follow your heart. :)