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cathysfiddle

65 F Salisbury, MD

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:41pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Retired
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
INTJ. (INXX)
By nature, I'm not very lonely, but I am very inquisitive.
I haven't updated my website for a few years, but it's got lots of detail: http://www.gjbgraphics.com/usefulstring/index.html
What I’m doing with my life
Last year I retired. I'm considering moving to Herndon, VA.
I've had a bad year with health. I've been in almost constant pain and had a few strokes which I'm recovering from. I've been swimming and losing weight constantly so I have gratitude. Sorry I'm not a great candidate for dating.
I’m really good at
singing in harmony.
The first things people usually notice about me
is that I'm friendly and comfortable with people. People also learn that I'm introverted.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: David Foster Wallace's Infinite Jest took me two years to read. Best thing I ever read.
Next time I read Middlemarch, I'll use a pencil to underline Elliot's insights.
Neal Stephenson - Quicksilver, another big book which is taking a long time to read.
Gödel, Escher, Bach.
Spiritual stuff by
Henri Nouwen,
Richard Foster,
Annie Dillard,…
Walter Wink on non-violence.
Hebrews.

Music: Bluegrass, baroque, blues, big band. If it begins with b I like it? I recently discovered Hildgard von Bingen (1098- 1179, check her out on Pandora)
But no autotune please.

I most enjoy music made by friends. I like local talent in general.
My son does standup as a hobby. My grandson acts and is amazingly good.

Foods: I'm adventuresome with food, but I always order Palak Paneer at Indian restaurants. Favorite foods: pickled herring, fresh tuna, sweet basil (but not all at the same time)

Movies: I have a huge list of favorites. I like to recommend them to friends and strangers too.
Generally I follow certain actors: Van Heflin, William Powell, Vincent D'onofrio, Mat Damon, George Cloony, River Phoenix, Edward Norton, Toby Jones, Aamir Khan, Philip Seymour Hoffman ... I'll add to this list as names come to mind. So far I'm more attracted to actors, and actresses, less so. Not everything the listed actors have done has been good. They have clunkers, some more than others.
Directors: Kurosawa, Campion, Ashby
Favorite dujour: Painted Veil, Secretary, The Whole Wide World, The Hudsucker Proxy, The Lives of Others. I recently revisited Breaking Away which has stood the test of time.
Friend me on Facebook for a list.

Television - Homicide, Firefly, Deadwood, Sherlock, Slings and Arrows, MiddleMarch (Well done as PBS series), The Americans, Hannibal,
The six things I could never do without
love, music, gratitude, family, water-aerobics, Big Book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what plot can I build in a novel. Still haven't found one. I don't think my own life has a plot. When and if I write a novel, it'll be a snoozer.
On a typical Friday night I am
retired, so what day is it?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is social failures/embarrassments of my past. But some of my greatest joys come as a result of social risks I took.
You might be my next social risk.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 60–75
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like conversation and would like to swap book, tv, and movie recommendations.