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cathyshriner

43 / F / Straight / Single

Pearl, Mississippi

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I am outgoing, energetic, and compassionate.

My Self-Summary

gosh i hate this part. but here goes............i am 43, a widow with no kids. i like them just never had any. i enjoy reading, listening to the stereo, cooking, hanging out with friends, experiencing new things, playing in the water, and traveling. especially those short day trips with no destination or schedule in mind. that pretty much sums it up, you can ask me anything.

What I’m doing with my life

starting to regain all i let go after my husbands death, and learn to live again. i do consulting part time and i am getting ready to do online classes to get my masters in addiction counseling. i want to help others deal with grief issues in a healthy natural way without chemicals to numb the brain.

I’m really good at

most things i set my mind at except of course electronics lol

The first things people usually notice about me

my eyes, personality, my disposition

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

everything from james patterson to max lucado
drama, romance and comedy, working on the horror
everything but rap
mexican and italin

The six things I could never do without

God
my family
friends
my eyesight
cant think of anything else

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life

On a typical Friday night I am

hanging out with friends or going to the ballgame. pretty much whatever comes up.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i am scared i wont find that special someone who puts the spark back in my life.

You should message me if

if your honest, very important and not into head games. i dont have time for it.