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39 M Greenbelt, MD

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–39
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:39am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Has cats
English (Fluently), Swahili (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Nothing stimulates me more than having a great conversation with a well-read, insatiable, eclectic, no-holds-barred, sometimes irreverent and saucy female mind ... bookended by equally mind-blowing sex... (or, lexiconified, I'm library card carrying sapiosexual ;). I'm a looking for an bright, fun-loving, adventurous fwb who's in search of an intellectually playful and sexually exciting connection without the expectation or desire for it to go beyond that. Healthy boundaries, honesty, and discretion are promised and expected. I have a fun-loving and dry sense of humor and enjoy side-splitting laughter! A Virgo (perfectionist learning to appreciate the value in the good:). I have an overactive mind that is always fashioning and refashioning the world, mine and the big wide, learning, bending, stretching, always reaching. But I'm keeping my inner Icarus on a shorter, fireproof leash these days.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking a sabbatical from a all-consuming non-profit career that's been enriching in many ways and frustrating, nerve-wracking, and thankless in others. But helping people, especially the young, make positive changes in their lives, even small ones, has been incredibly rewarding. Regret rien!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading, writing, adventure, brainstorming, dry humor, dreaming, procrastinating, sponging up random information; philosophizing about the state of everything, watching quirky films, digging edgy music and style, engaged fatherhood, limitless conversation.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Dunno. My eyes and if and to what extent I have facial hair?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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... so many "favorites" when it comes to arts 'n culture. will cliffnotes do?

authors: vonnegut, chatwin, ngugi, robbins, orwell, yeats, burgess, persig, berry (wendell), mehta (gita), kureishi, conrad, dickens, hesse, kundera, danticat, garcia marquez, doyle (the roddy one).

directors: kubrick, potter, coppola, kurosawa, lean, allen, huston, sayles, leigh, greenaway, campion, scorsese, jarmusch.

films: the red violin to the big lebowski to maltese falcon to matewan to full metal jacket and ever'thing betwixt and between.

music: clash, joy division, b52s, neil young, pentangle, ramones, lou reed, patti smith, innocence mission, mermen, black flag, off!, circle jerks, minutemen, u2, beethoven, shostokovich, greg brown, dylan, guthrie, mingus, sinatra, chieftans, cramps, who, stones, zeppelin, mescaleros, echo and the bunnymen, moshiach oi!, arctic monkeys, smiths, cure, greg brown, zz top, ade diabate and the super djata band.

jeez, that was hard. now, blindfolded, underwater, using a cyrillic scrabble board ...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, cats, memory foam, meaningful work that I'm passionate about, books, friends and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make the world a better place by imagining how things could be different. Also, how the pace of social change is disrupting so much of what I used to take as given and whether that's a good thing. (Welcome to modernity, kid.)
You should message me if
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... while reading my profile and viewing my shoulders with headshot -- and I say this modestly -- your heartbeat jumped a tad, you chuckled to yourself, and found yourself a wee bit moister than before you visited.... or you think you might if we connected.