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39 M Greenbelt, MD

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Last Online
Yesterday – 6:16pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Has cats
English (Fluently), Swahili (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Nothing stimulates me more than having a great conversation with a well-read, insatiable, eclectic, no-holds-barred, sometimes irreverent and saucy female mind ... bookended by making equally mind-blowing whoopie. With my lovely partner's blessing, I'm a kink-friendly Dom looking for that special Sub who seeks a intellectually playful and sexually exciting connection without the expectation or desire for it to go beyond that. Healthy boundaries, honesty, and discretion are promised and expected. I have a fun-loving and dry sense of humor and enjoy side-splitting laughter! A Virgo (perfectionist learning to appreciate the value in the good:). I have an overactive mind that is always fashioning and refashioning the world, mine and the big wide one, learning, bending, stretching, always reaching. But I'm keeping my inner Icarus on a shorter, fireproof leash these days. Oh, my, did he say "leash"?
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking a sabbatical from a all-consuming non-profit career that's been enriching in many ways and frustrating, nerve-wracking, and thankless in others. But helping people, especially the young, make positive changes in their lives, even small ones, has been incredibly rewarding. Regret rien!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading, writing, adventure, brainstorming, dry humor, dreaming, procrastinating, sponging up random information; philosophizing about the state of everything, watching quirky films, digging edgy music and style, engaged fatherhood, limitless conversation.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and if and to what extent I have facial hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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... so many "favorites" when it comes to arts 'n culture. will cliffnotes do?

authors: vonnegut, chatwin, ngugi, robbins, orwell, yeats, burgess, persig, wendell berry, gita mehta, kuresihi, conrad, dickens, hesse, kundera, danticat, garcia marquez, roddy doyle

directors: kubrick, potter, coppola, kurosawa, lean, allen, huston, sayles, leigh, greenaway, campion, scorsese, jarmusch.

films: the red violin to the big lebowski to maltese falcon to matewan to full metal jacket and ever'thing betwixt and between.

music: clash, joy division, b52s, neil young, pentangle, ramones, lou reed, patti smith, innocence mission, mermen, black flag, off!, circle jerks, minutemen, u2, beethoven, shostokovich, greg brown, dylan, guthrie, mingus, sinatra, chieftans, cramps, who, stones, zeppelin, mescaleros, echo and the bunnymen, moshiach oi!, arctic monkeys

jeez, that was hard. now, for the next act, he will do it blindfolded, underwater, using a cyrillic scrabble board ...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, cats, a comfy bed, meaningful work that I'm passionate about, books, my friends and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make the world a better place by imagining how things could be different. Also, how the pace of social change is disrupting so much of what I used to take as given and whether that's a good thing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–36
  • Near me
  • For casual sex
You should message me if
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... while reading my profile and viewing my albeit sideways headshot -- and I say this modestly -- your heartbeat jumped a tad, you chuckled to yourself, and found yourself a wee bit moister than before you visited.... or you think you might if we connected.