I answered a question today that merits an entry here...
So my general thinking is that any control over being shy, selective or uninterested is an illusion. Wishing won't make it so, and neither will meeting over a hundred OKC hopefuls. When matching pairs somehow find each other there will be very little either can do to put on the brakes. Meanwhile I have yet to find a magic method to locate them. But most days it sure seems like they are actively avoiding finding ME. Hmm, I can't decide if that makes me a romantic.
8/15 pet peeve update:
Who among us believes they have a "bot" that adds hidden likes here to incentivize subscription fees?
My best day was flying my cross country solo in a helicopter over the Golden Gate. I have seen Formula One racing close up and it's incredible. I used to go to the Reno Air Races every year. I have taken a week long trip in a Cessna 172. I have spent countless hours mountain biking, roller skating, skate boarding, downhill skiing and motorcycling. I have a job I LOVE, but something is missing here... hmmm??? What could it be?
Possibly a caring, sexy, sensuous, smart, sassy, sarcastic member
of the softer sex to complete the picture? Someone who actually has
fashion sense and knows how to put 2 colors together. Someone who
needs to get outside and exercise and hates the gym. Someone who
loves nature and science and sustainability. Maybe someone who
loves cars but feels too guilty to drive an SUV because those days are so OVER for this planet. Someone who thinks about stuff like what society and mass media are doing to the evolution of the human race. Not to mention what it means for their own happiness.
I am some combination of MacGuyver, House, and Spock. Which probably means some combination of "assburgers" and ADHD.