Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm happily married to Felis_Fuchsia
in a non-monogamous
relationship. I have anxiety issues that make meeting new folks a
bit of a challenge, but it's pretty well under control nowdays,
even if it does rear it's head on occasion. Alcohol tends to help
me with the initial pleasantries and the 'getting to know you'
phase of meeting new people, but it's not necessary.
Also something I want to make clear is that my relationships are
not my wife's relationships. We are both looking for our own thing
and dating me does not mean you need to date her. We are not
unicorn hunters. Feel free to ask if you have any questions about
how our relationship works.
I'm also very interested in Body Modification. I've had a few dozen
piercings over the years, a couple of tattoos (more would be ace)
and a couple of other more intense projects. It's something I am
quite passionate about and I tend to try and soak up information
concerning it like a sponge. I love to talk about the subject,
whether it's other people's work or my own. I also find it's a nice
I used to do a lot of reading, but in the last several years it's
gotten more and more difficult to be able to do so due to various
issues. I still have a good memory for the stories I have read, but
new books are a rarity for me. I've mostly filled that void with
comics. The mixture of visual and textual story telling allows me
to keep my focus or attention far more consistently.
I consider myself a feminist, anti-racist, and LGBT ally, though I
respect different opinion on whether or not someone can claim these
descriptors for themselves. I'm regularly in the process of
examining my own privileges and I hope my actions and language show
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
We're on that long and dangerous quest for the most precious prize
of all... financial stability!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm oblivious on this matter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I'm a big fan of sci-fi as well as horror. Ursula le Guin,
Margaret Atwood and William Gibson being some good examples. I'm
also a huge fan of comics, though more on the 'one off self
contained story end' rather than the superhero serials. Stuff like
I Kill Giants, Transmetropolitan, 100 Bullets, Saga, Rat Queens etc
Movies: Sci-Fi, Horror, and I have an unreasonable amount of love
for "terrible" schlocky films. Stuff like 'I Bought a Vampire
Motorcycle'. Some examples of actual good movies that come to mind
would be most of Tarantino's films, Antiviral, and Rosemary's
Television: I don't watch a ton of television, but stuff like the
new Battlestar Galactica, Breaking Bad, The Wire, and Archer are my
cup of tea. Game of Thrones and several of Netflix's shows are a
bit of an obsession as well.
Music: Pretty varied in my preferences. Janelle Monae, Die
Antwoord, metal and things
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Analyzing and critiquing the content I consume and enjoy.
- Feminism and various other Social Justice issues.
- How I'd really love to get my next body mod project going
- Game Mechanics and Design
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home relaxing, usually.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have ADHD and Social Anxiety Disorder. The anxiety is not a major
issue most days anymore, but I like to give a heads up. Feel free
to ask if you want to know more.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-A night of board games sounds like a fun time.
-You wanna nerd out together
-You wanna critically analyze our favorite things half to
-If you have any interest in body modification
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