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31 Brooklyn, NY Man


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  • Ages 21–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 12:33am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I try to be a friendly, honest, human being who will do anything for the people I care about and lots of things for complete strangers
What I’m doing with my life
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I work directly with people who have intellectual/developmental disabilities. Things can get pretty intense at work so I'm pretty busy. I've been doing what I do for 7 years and at my agency in various positions for 3 so clearly I love it. If we go somewhere that involves alcohol and I have enough of it, I will probably show you pictures of some of the amazing people I have met
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering to take the trash to the curb on pickup night. Making people birthday treats. Making quiche. Cuddling with people/animals. Becoming friends with a group of strangers in a bar.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess tall, beard, cowboy boots?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am basically a humongous dork and am not ashamed.

Right now, I am reading Ethical Slut and just finished a book called The Reason I Jump by Naoki Higashida.

Waylon Jennings, Jessi Colter, Gram Parsons, Emmylou Harris, Townes Van Zandt, Jerry Jeff Walker, Patsy Cline, Kris Kristofferson, Steve Earle, Loretta Lynn, Ryan Bingham, The Pistol Annies, Willie Nelson, The Little Willies, George Jones, ect. I like old cowboy music

I like noms


Remember the time John Carpenter and Roddy Piper predicted the future? I think it was called They Live.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A few years ago I would have said cigarettes, but I was wrong about that so none of these are set in stone...

Somewhere to walk to

Good country music to listen to while I walk

Somewhere to stop on the way

All the different kinds of people in the world


My slow cookers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
superheroes. pizza. consent. sandwiches. police abuse. dumplings. privilege. tacos. monogamy and it's alternatives. beer. neurodiversity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
conversing with friends, family or strangers
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I draw a smiley face on the sponge with body wash every morning in the shower. A growing part of me believes that this is the only thing staving off the apocalypse. So I guess it is good that I do that.
You should message me if
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You can teach me how to jump rope

I tend to like people who are honest. My favorite are people who are willing to give a little for the people they care about and coincidentally care about pretty much everybody. Also people who are smart and self critical and self reflective even when it is hard, specifically people who help me be those things and help me learn and grow.

Let me reiterate, honesty honesty honesty. Honesty.

You take care of yourself, whatever that means to you.

I tend to like people who understand this:


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